11 total reviews
My now-husband and I had our first meeting with Stephanie at Starbucks and weren't sure what to expect. She was so sweet and really seemed interested to hear about our courtship and upcoming wedding. She had a questionnaire she completed about our hopes & goals as a couple. Our meeting seemed to go by in a flash but in reality was a few hours long. Stephanie is based in Orange County and was willing to make the drive to our rehearsal AND wedding deep in the Inland Empire with a minimal mileage fee. She was insistent on attending the rehearsal and we found that some potential officiants were not interested and that was a deal-breaker for us. The rehearsal was important to us and it was nice knowing Stephanie understood that and was on the same page. We kept in touch periodically to work on the ceremony and she provided several examples to give us a place to start. At the rehearsal she was fun and made the experience really exciting. We shared a few jokes and she put us as ease going into the biggest day of our lives. On the wedding day she arrived early and spent some time with the ladies in the bridal suite. She joked with us, took pictures and shared stories and even rapped the vows just minutes before we walked down the aisle! I was cracking up the whole time and knew we chose the right person to marry us. Stephanie is open-minded, easy going and charismatic. We discussed her outfit options (never crossed my mind!) and she ended up looking like the perfect addition to the wedding and fit in well with a gray shift dress and yellow jewelry to coordinate with our wedding colors. She is beautiful inside & out and we heard so many great compliments from our family and friends about the ceremony and Stephanie's personality. I highly recommend her if you're looking for an officiant!
Well hello Mr. & Mrs. Whitte! Welcome back from Italy!.
Thank you so much for such kind words in this review. It was an absolute pleasure working with you from: hearing your love story, formulating ideas to implement into your ceremony, helping ...
Of all the people that helped to make our wedding day special, Stephanie made it the best!!! We started working with Stephanie about a year before our wedding for pre-marital coaching. We found this to be so much fun and really beneficial for both of us. We developed a friendship with Stephanie as we worked together and it was obvious that she truly cared about us both as individuals and as a couple! As our Wedding Officiant, she more than delivered! Our ceremony was beyond amazing: personalized, upbeat and inspirational. It was everything we had hoped for and more. I had numerous guests comment to me on how wonderful the ceremony was and what a great job she had done. I honestly can’t say enough about Stephanie. She is such a genuine person and a perfect fit for this world of work. We feel very fortunate to have found Stephanie and plan to maintain a lifelong friendship with her.
I have to say that there were many parts of our wedding that were fantastic, but Stephanie was a part of the most important and she made it the best. Stephanie is, not only, extraordinarily professional and well spoken, but she is also very warm and genuine. She was pleasant and easy to work with throughout the process of writing the ceremony. I found her very helpful and detail oriented when editing our final draft, which was the most stressful part. In addition, Stephanie received many compliments from both sides of the family. I truly enjoyed her presence on the best day of our lives and will never forget how much she cared and what a great job she did.
Thanks so much Stephanie!
ps we will email you our picture soon ;)
Love Adam and Katie
When I set out to find someone to marry us, I knew I wanted a female. I wanted someone strong,fun and very easy going, Stephanie fit all of that and more! When we first met Stephanie, she made us feel so comfortable. She was very down to earth and just a joy to talk to. She made us feel at ease and she was very professional. During our first meeting with her, we felt like she understand not only how we felt about one another but also what we wanted our wedding to be like. Since it was not the first marriage for either one of us, we appreciated that she was non- judgmental. Stephanie provided us with examples of other ceremonies and helped us decide what was best off us. She was never pushy and always accommodating. We kept in contact with her up until the wedding, going over minor details, she was always on top of her game! Our rehearsal with her was simple and easy. After the rehearsal was over, we left knowing that she was going to make your day perfect. The day of our wedding was perfect! Again she made us feel so comfortable and we had so many compliments about her and our beautiful ceremony. We would definitely recommend Stephanie to anyone. Stephanie is very eloquent and we were truly blessed to have chosen someone who made us feel so comfortable.
First and foremost, Pure Lavish Events loves "He Said, She Said!" Stephanie has quickly become our preferred officiant, she immediately connects with our couples and listens to their story whole heartedly to ensure that their ceremony has meaning and depth. She truly has a gift and a heart made for this career.
She comes early to every rehearsal and ceremony and has even lent us a helping hand when setting up. Stephanie is so genuine and cares deeply about her couples. She truly wants their day to be perfect and goes beyond to ensure that happens. Not to mention her smile lights up the room and her professionalism goes unmatched.
We will continue to refer Stephanie and are excited for many more weddings together!
Stephanie is awesome!! I knew it the moment I met her. We wanted a non-denominational officiant for our wedding and she gave us exactly the ceremony we envisioned. She's super organized, which really put us at ease. We knew she would show up, be prepared, and help keep US calm :) She's incredibly warm and funny--just a really good presence. I did a lot of the writing for our ceremony, but she had some great suggestions for making it better and did such a wonderful job with leading the ceremony. I got tons of compliments from guests on how nice it was. I'd highly, highly recommend her!
I really searched high and low to find someone that was not to stuffy, and that could bring something new and fresh to my wedding. I wanted something that was non-denominational and someone that would really set the tone for my outdoor vineyard wedding. Stephanie was better then I could have ever thought! She helped my husband and I really mold our vows to what we were looking for. She also was so kind to give my husband a pep talk right before the wedding to calm his nerves. I would 100% refer Stephanie to anyone looking for a friendly,organized, and personal officiant. I will never forget you Stephanie xoxo!!
Stephanie was not only professional in all aspects of her role as our officiant, she was warm, friendly, and made us feel so comfortable before and on the wedding day. Stephanie was always available to answer any questions we had and helped us create a ceremony all our own. We received so many compliments after the wedding. Thank you Stephanie, for helping to make our day even better than we could have imagined!
We met Stephanie about 3 weeks prior to our wedding during our first pre-marital couseling session. Right off, we appreciated her being so relatable and engaging. She is very professional and uses her knowledge to with us in a way that makes us open up and gain an impactful experience from each session. We owe our preparation for marriage and willingness to continuously to work on our relationship to Stephanie.
Stephanie married us on 8/3/12. Her orgnaization and guidance throughout the process of creating such a memorable day was very efficient, accurate and thorough. As she was with us when we first met, she was very engaging with our family and they all loved her. She created a very intimate feeling during our ceremony. Honestly, we would not have had it any other way. We are so happy we selected Stephanie to direct us through our pre-marital counseling and to perform our wedding ceremony!!!
Eric and Jessica Lampkin:)
Stephanie was nothing but professional! She was poised and sweet and extremely easy to work with! I would recommend her to anyone. Our vows were perfect, they were romantic without dragging on and being repetitive. She allowed us to customize our vows and they never once felt as though they were "cookie cutter vows". She showed up early being fully prepared and I never once had to worry "is Stephanie going to make it on time?!". She was one of my favorite vendors.
Very helpful, organized, and poised.
When my photographer was 2 hours late and my nerves were running haywire she did everything she could to help me. She even took pictures of me and my bridesmaids with her own camera just to help calm me down. Also my veil was coming out and she took her own bobby pin out just to help me. Her little gestures and her understanding was so much and more. She is what an officiant should be. She is more than just an officiant! ! ! You cant go wrong with her ! ! ! I would recommend her 1000000000xs over!
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He said...She said
I am an Elementary School Counselor and LOVE working as a wedding officiant in my free time. I serve all of Southern California. My job is to share your love story with the individuals you love most. I look forward to meeting you and helping to create your perfect wedding ceremony!
- Denomination: Buddhist, Catholic, Christian, Civil Marriage, Commitment Ceremonies, Hindu, Interfaith, Jewish, Muslim, New Age, Non-Denominational/Secular, Premarital Counseling
awards and affiliations
- The Knot Best Of Weddings 2013