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Sure, the bride's gown takes center stage on the big day -- but the groom's duds are in every scene too! Since all eyes will be on both of you, you've got to dress to impress. Suiting up with a tux is a surefire way to look your absolute best and these tips will help you do it (almost) effortlessly.
Start early and you'll not only save yourself some stress, you'll reduce your chances of overpaying -- or, even worse, settling for something decidedly un-fabulous. In this case, early means four or five months before your wedding. Decide whether to rent or buy, and check out different styles. Make your final decision three or four months before the big day.
Relax! We're not implying that your sense of style is lacking or less than perfectly charming, but you'll need some help here. Gone are the days when grooms surprise their blushing brides with funky or frumpy formalwear. Think of the pictures! Before you commit to a tux, talk to her early on so that you can coordinate your wedding looks.
The time and location of your wedding -- as well as the size of your guest list -- will affect your choice of attire. These things determine the formality of your affair, and you won't want to make the faux pas of wearing ultra-formal formalwear to an informal event, especially when it's your wedding! For help on what to wear when, click here.
Are you a tall drink of water or the short and stocky type? Either way, you'll want to find the best tux cut for your body type. Love the classic look of a cummerbund? If you're thick around the middle, you might want to think twice -- you're better off going with a vest to camouflage your extra girth. Click here for help in finding a flattering tux style.
Whether you rent or buy, make sure that your formalwear provider gives you a proper fitting and knows how to measure your inseam, waist, and jacket size. Pay attention not only to what looks good but also to what feels good. Fabrics these days are more breathable than in years past, and it's possible to achieve the look you want and wear a tux that moves with you instead of one that weighs you down. Click here to find tuxedo resources in your area.
Let's face it -- the average guy doesn't put clothes shopping at the top of his to-do list. That's why you should make sure your groomsmen get their acts together early. Around the same time you decide on your attire, start thinking about what you'd like them to wear. Ask your bride if she envisions the bow ties, cummerbunds, or other accessories coordinating with the bridesmaid dresses. To be safe, give the guys all the necessary info (styles, colors, and store suggestions) two to three months prior to the big day.
Part of the appeal of a tuxedo is that it's easy: you know you look good just wearing one. But since it's your day, you are entitled to make a statement, albeit a subtle one. Set yourself apart from the groomsmen by wearing a different jacket cut or a tie and vest in another shade, or by sporting an ultra-special boutonniere.
If ever there was a chance for guys to accessorize, it's on their wedding day. Of course, this means getting your tie, cummerbund or vest, shoes, and even socks finalized long before the big event. You should also think about adding on an extra-special (but subtle) flourish, like a pair of antique cufflinks, an expensive boutonniere, or an heirloom pocket square.
Don't be shy about asking for a special deal on formalwear for yourself and your groomsmen. Many retailers are happy to discount your duds when everyone in your wedding party buys from the same store. It never hurts to ask -- and if it does work out, your groomsmen will be extremely grateful.
Admit it: You've been quelling butterflies in your tummy by eating a little bit more. Or maybe you're such a basket of nerves that you've been skipping meals. Don't worry. This is common, but new eating habits can affect the fit of your tuxedo. Make sure to try on your tux about a week or two before your wedding. That way you'll have time to rent a different size tux or make any necessary alterations before the big day.