Destination Weddings: Do We Pay for Our Guests?


What's the etiquette? Are we obligated to pay for our guests or subsidize any portion of their trip?


If you are able to pay any portion of your guests' way, it is a nice gesture and they will certainly appreciate it. Couples usually go this route when there aren't many affordable lodging options near their site. In general, though, it is not required that you cover any of your guests' expenses. But aim for harmony regardless and choose a location that offers accomodation options in all price points. You know your guests best, so keep in mind what you think they'll be willing and able to spend when you select your location.

-- JoAnn Gregoli

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Q&A: Invitations: Destination Wedding Etiquette?

My fiance and I are getting married in Maui and know that not all the 200 guests we would like to invite will make it. When we come back home, we are going to have a reception for everyone not able to make the trip. I've read that when getting married away and returning home to a reception, you should only send out wedding invitations to those you know can and will attend the wedding, then send out separate invitations for the reception. We both feel very strongly about sending invitations to everyone and then including (at the bottom) that a reception will be held in our honor when we return. We are afraid that if we follow etiquette, we will hurt people's feelings. Do we follow the rules or do what we feel is right?

by The Knot