Serving ALL loving couples who want to marry in Connecticut
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Celebrate Your Day Your Way!
Your love is unique, and you deserve a unique celebration. Weddings, Elopements, and Handfastings. Whether you choose a simple ceremony or an elegant event, may your special day be filled with joy and happiness.
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Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Buddhist
- Christian
- Catholic
- Protestant
- Interfaith
- Jewish
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- Getting Engaged
- Wedding
- Ceremony
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It was great getting to work with Ernest as we prepared for our wedding, and he delivered a beautiful ceremony for my wife and me. We planned our wedding on relatively short notice, and he was extremely helpful and prompt in answering our questions and getting us ready for our big day. He walked us through filing our paperwork, provided samples of vows, readings, and ring exchanges, and did a "mini-rehearsal" with the two of us the day before so we knew exactly how things would flow. Thank you again, Ernest!
Response from the Vendor on 10/03/2022
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Marco and Nicole were a pleasure to work with! Their praise and their review is appreciated. The level of service that i was able to provide for them is the level that I strive for, because I always want to...
go beyond expectations. :)
Ernest was absolutely wonderful! We reached out just two weeks before our ceremony after previous plans fell through - he was responsive, easy to communicate with, and was incredibly flexible in accommodating our last minute changes. Ernest provided vow samples and thoughtful insight in wedding details, and was happy to help throughout the process. His enthusiasm, warm personality, and sense of humor definitely made for an especially memorable experience. Thank you so much!!
Response from the Vendor on 09/06/2020
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Jessica and her fiance were wonderful to work with! Family members who were present were warm and welcoming. The decorations were very nice and made with love. Rain didn't dampen anyone's spirits! One of...
the family made a joke in their native language, then were mildly embarrassed that i laughed. (Sometimes it's fun knowing a few words that people don't expect me to know.)
May Jessica and her groom have a long, happy married life!
I am so glad we found Ernest. He met with us in person to go over the ceremony and was very accommodating when we had to postpone due to COVID. He offers a ton of different options for vows if you are not writing your own. He made it easy for us to just enjoy the day. Thank you for all your help Ernest.
Response from the Vendor on 09/04/2020
Thank you, Billie Jean, for your kind words! You and Kevin were a joy to work with, and his sense of humor was a breath of fresh air!
Best wishes for a happy life together!
Ernest
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Due to COVID we wanted to have a small intimate ceremony.He is extremely easy to communicate and very responsive via text. We had a very pleasant experience and smooth experience.He also offered a variety of vows and readings for the ceremony.Highly recommend Ernest!
Response from the Vendor on 09/04/2020
Thank you very much, Maddy! You and Kenneth and your family made me feel very welcome! Your mother-in-laws reading was perfect, and memorable. You and Kenneth deserve a smooth ride down the river of matrimony!
Best wishes for 100 years of h...
appily married life!
Ernest
Ernest was a profoundly knowledgeable, personable and generous professional from the moment I sent him the first email. My husband and I had a lot of questions, and being that we were planning our ceremony during Covid, we had extra factors to consider. Ernest met with us via zoom on several occasions to discuss every detail of our plans, even suggesting some of the most special parts of our ceremony - such as the poem reading and the sand ceremony. He patiently worked with my children to ensure they understood their roles in our ceremony. Each and every one of our guests was impressed with Ernest's professionalism, humor, disposition and overall care and concern. He made our special day the success that it was, and I am so grateful I came across his information in my searches. I took a gamble reaching out to someone that I did not know and that I was not recommended to, but we are so glad that I did! I wholeheartedly recommend Ernest.
Response from the Vendor on 08/20/2020
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Tara and Joe were a lot of fun to work with and had good insights into what they wanted. Questions mean (to me) that a couple thinks that wedding details are important, and it means that they...
will have exactly the wedding that they want and deserve.
Attention The Knot: Send me more couples like Tara and Joe! PLEASE!
Earnest is the absolute BEST! We honestly do not have enough good things to say about him and everything that he did for us to make the process so easy. He is the most kind, gentle, accommodating, thoughtful, and helpful person to celebrate your wedding day with. He helped us with a wonderful recommendation on a place to stay the night before and then met us at the Groton Town Hall as we were getting the paperwork together. We left everything up to him in regards to finding a peaceful place where we could go for the ceremony and he picked a beautiful spot. He can accommodate any type of ceremony you are looking for and only has your best interest in mind. He is just simply one of those people that makes you feel good when you meet him. Even if we did not elope with him in CT, we would of loved to have him officiate a real wedding. We STRONGLY encourage you to reach out to Earnest if you are coming to CT to get married. Additionally, the people that work in the Groton Clerk's Office are super sweet as well. The whole process was a dream come true and it was all because of Earnest.
Response from the Vendor on 11/08/2018
Thank you for reading the reviews. Mindy and Todd were an amazing couple to work with! They knew what they wanted and were happy to tell me. They are obviously in love, mature and happy with themselves and each other. They treated everyone ...
with kindness. I wish every couple were like them!
Ernest is NOT Only the BEST Choice, He is the ONLY Choice. Ernest was there for Us from Start to Finish. We couldn’t have been any happier w/ Our Wedding Day. This Couple refers to Our Ceremony as the BEST Day of Our Lives. He gets the Credit for that. Ernest is both compassionate & knowlegable. The Experience could NOT have been Any Easier. Forget Romantic, It was MAGICAL. Call Ernest Adams & Get Married in CT. You will be Delighted. We are ETERNALLY Grateful to Him.
Thanks Ernest, You are the BEST!!! Robert & Colleen H.
Response from the Vendor on 07/27/2018
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Robert and Colleen were a dream couple for me! They decided to come to Connecticut because it is so much easier to go through the process of getting their marriage license here than in their home state. We d...
id all of the planning of location, license application, ceremony, and transportation by email and phone. Robert and Colleen chose other wedding professionals through recommendations, and their choices were perfect.
Thank you, Colleen and Robert, for making me a part of your amazing day!
What a nice man!!! My wife and myself were planning on eloping. And, we did...Called Ernest spontaneously with an immediate response from him. He was very understanding and flexible with our request. Especially when we called with a last moment change. We moved our "wedding" to be a few days before the original request, and he was more than pleased to assist with our requests. I'll say it again. WHAT A NICE MAN! We are very proud to have had Ernest marry us. It was, and always be, the best day of our lives.
Thank you so much Ernest Adams!
Response from the Vendor on 06/17/2018
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This couple were obviously in love, and it was a pleasure to be their officiant. Like other couples, they were concerned about a last-minute change of date, and I assured them that it was no problem. As lon...
g as there is not another wedding or rehearsal scheduled, I will accommodate everyone.
Immediately after the wedding, I filed the completed marriage license at the town hall. When I came out, the groom was taping a "Just Married" streamer on their black Harley's radio antenna. Very creative!
The reviews on him are extremely mixed. I actually choose him without looking at the reviews and only now did I notice how mixed those reviews are. Well, simply put he was wonderful! Our original officiant canceled last minute (and I mean last minute). Not only did Mr. Adams make himself available for us, he was extremely professional, polite, well mannered, well dressed, and most important in my book on time! He also didn't even blink an eye when I decided I wanted to do the ceremony in a different location (after he already arrived at the agreed upon location) and he was pleased to walk up the hill and through the graveyard to get to the little church I wanted to do the ceremony in front of. He was great! I don't know why he doesn't have 5/5 reviews.
Response from the Vendor on 10/19/2017
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This bride and groom were typical of the reason I began officiating at weddings in 2008! She was having difficulty finding an officiant who would do what she and her fiance wanted without imposing things that they didn'...
t want. As an experienced officiant, I love helping couples have the wedding _they_ want, in the location _they_ choose.
Customer service is very important to me; going above and beyond is normal for me. I don't think of it as out of the ordinary.
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We met with Ernest because he married some friends of ours and he came highly recommended. He was nice from the get-go and was always willing to come to our home to meet with us. He was also willing to marry us and then do the real ceremony over a year later. He seemed very organized and like he knew what he was doing.
And then the rehearsal dinner happened. Wow. That day was crazy for us. All of our family and friends that were attending the wedding were from out of state so they were all lost trying to find the park because I suck at giving directions. He said that we HAD to have all members of the wedding party before we could do the rehearsal and he had to leave soon to do a wedding and if we didn't do the rehearsal then HE COULD NOT DO OUR WEDDING THE NEXT DAY. Are you kidding me? He brought me to tears. Telling me that he possibly wouldn't do our wedding the NEXT day. At that point my amazing MOH decided that I would have nothing to do with him the rest of the day because he was stressing me out so much. She was the communicator with him from there on out. He started being very rude to her and then he said he would not communicate with her the rest of the day! Finally, all of our friends and family had shown up and we could start the rehearsal. And by that time the rest of the family and friends had shown up and were talking and he yelled at them to all be quiet! Yelled! At that point, I just wanted to get through the rehearsal without having a meltdown.
The next day was the wedding, and I was honestly scared that he wasn't going to show up, but he did. I missed the whole fight with him and our DJ because its Ernest's way or the highway and he only wanted to use HIS microphone, not the DJS. And his damn microphone didn't even work so our family and friends couldn't even hear our vows.
He is a nice man but has very bad people and business skills. Please avoid using him.
Response from the Vendor on 10/19/2017
Thank you for taking the time to read the reviews.
When first I read this "review", I wondered if we were at the same rehearsal and the same wedding. Then I noticed that what the bride wrote was written three months after the wedding.
I appr...
eciate the truthful, positive things that she had to say.
Re-reading our contract and my notes has proved interesting. According to my notes, the bride was impaired at the rehearsal and incapable of standing still. The groom was quiet and clearly embarrassed.
The DJ, who insisted on placing his microphone on the groom, could not adjust his equipment so that the bride and I could be heard without getting the squeal of feedback. That is why guests could not hear.
Thank you for reading. Please contact me if you have any questions or concerns!
He got the job done. He performed the ceremony perfectly, filed the marriage license, none of the guests thought anything of it. We met with him twice before the ceremony, and we really liked him. However, at the rehearsal, he literally yelled at the staff at the venue. He decided that he was completely taking over the entire rehearsal, and yelled at the wedding coordinators whenever the chimed in with important information we needed to know. He told them that they could either watch silently or leave. When they tried to tell him that they had important information for us as well, he raised his voice over them, repeating, "EITHER WATCH SILENTLY, OR LEAVE!" I was so shocked, I didn't know what to do. He even said to them, "I've done a lot of weddings before, I know what I'm doing." Well, they've done a lot of weddings before and they know what they are doing!!! I told him that I wanted everyone's cooperation and wanted all the information I needed from everyone. He did not challenge me, but still didn't listen to them. The really awful way he treated the coordinators really made me mad. Honestly, if he didn't already have our marriage license, I would have told him we'd find another officiant and not to bother coming. I was so embarrassed that someone I hired would treat other professionals in the same field (or any other person) so poorly. And at the end of the rehearsal, he actually gave them his card! My bridesmaids were terrified of him because they didn't want to get yelled at. My father almost started something with him, but I asked him not to. The coordinators did the professional thing and let him do his thing without making a scene and waited for him to leave to give us the rest of the important information we needed. I apologized to them profusely and they understood it wasn't my fault. I was so disappointed with him at our actual ceremony, I didn't even want to look at him. We were happy he decided not to stay for dinner at the reception because I wouldn't have wanted him there anyway. I do not recommend him at all!! Find someone else!!
Response from the Vendor on 10/19/2017
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Jackie and Steve are very nice people, and it was a pleasure to work with them for their wedding.
The staff at their venue, however, were difficult. They could not comprehend that the wedding...
officiant is responsible for both the rehearsal and the ceremony. The officiant has the complete wedding script, with all of the details that the couple has chosen, and knows how the choreography must go. The venue staff has total responsibility for the reception, and I would never think about interfering.
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He came through at the last minute for my husband and I. He made this wedding possible. I would hire him again in a heartbeat!
Response from the Vendor on 10/19/2017
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Initially referred by The Knot, this couple were a joy to work with! Their idea of "last minute" was par for the course for me: Plenty of time for us to plan and rehearse exactly what they wanted.
Their wed...
ding in Elizabeth Park in Hartford, CT was attended by a couple of dozen happy and respectful guests. Their harpist and violinist were great additions. I wish that I had a video of the whole wedding!
Working with this couple was very comfortable, and they and their guests were very kind in their compliments.
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Your wedding will be uniquely your own. Since 2008 it has been my joy to marry more than 800 couples, helping each couple have the wedding of their dreams. Customer service is my top priority. Connecticut ceremonies only.
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