This was a wonderful venue for both our ceremony and our reception that our friends and family loved and who had helpful staff. One of the things to be aware of when looking at this venue is that there are stairs and no elevator. So guest do ha...ve to ascend the stairs to attend the ceremony, head back downstairs for the dinner portion and ascend once again for the dancing. We took the risk, only being concerned with my grandmother who managed with a little help that evening.
Owner, Cindy, was wonderful and answered my e mails the week leading up to the ceremony quickly. Because there may be a ceremony the evening before yours, you may not be able to get into the venue as early as you would like. Fortunately, I had several friends to help set up the ceremony and dinner reception areas.
Sarita was our day of coordinator who also handled our rehearsal. She was very sweet to us and took care of what we needed handled. She had kind words for us as she walked us to the car after the evening was over.
I do have some suggestions for the Stanley and things for brides to keep in mind. One being that there are two venues here and while seeing another bride on your wedding day is pretty much the last thing you want to see, it's likely to happen. It happened to me while taking photos in the nearest alleyway with my bridesmaids. The parties exchanged kind words and it is what it is. The other slightly annoying part about getting married in the beautiful, smaller venue next to the large Aspen room is that everyone assumes that when you say you're getting married at "The Stanley" that you mean the Aspen Room. The staff there made this mistake leading up tp the wedding, our vendors did too and it made us feel like our venue was downplayed to nearly nonexistent. Just because it holds less people and you want to have a more intimate wedding doesn't make it any less beautiful or special. Sometimes we were made to feel that way unfortunately.
Suggestions would be for the bridal suite. Yes, it is small, but it works out. I do think a toilet seat lid is in order. It keeps things from accidentally getting into the toilet and could make for another spot to sit in a pinch.
I would also suggest a curtain to cover the mirror over the sink. Your guests are arriving up the back staircase and if that suite door opens, guests can look right into the mirror and see the bride standing at the opposite end of the room. My bridesmaids covered the mirror with a jacket every time the door was opened to prevent this from happening.
The only let down I felt revolving around the venue on my wedding day was when I asked for a glass of wine. I noticed the "barefoot" brand label which I know runs $5-6 at the store, but I was paying $20 a bottle for it. I get there's a markup, but that 4 to 1 ratio seems excessive. Also, we were told there would be 10 guests to a table and planned accordingly having two "reserved" signs for our first two tables, one for family and one for our bridal party as we sat at a sweetheart table. Instead there was an odd 8 top table squeezed in the front so our families and bridal party were confused and ended up mixed and a couple scattered. I would have planned appropriately had I known.
Overall, we were pleased with the venue, the staff and our day was wonderful.