As much as we love your little ones, this is going to be an "adults only" celebration! Please keep your little ones home as we are only inviting children who are in the wedding party. Your RSVP details will specify the number of family members (including children, if any).

While we would love to invite everyone we know with a guest, we both have very large families and want to make sure everyone has plenty of space on the dance floor for our wedding day! If you received a plus one, it will be noted on your invitation (Your Name & Guest). Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself and your guest so that we have a proper headcount.

Yes, of course! But please be courteous of those around you. We kindly ask that if you do want to take pictures, please be especially mindful when inside the church. Please DO NOT stand in or hang over into the aisle while the wedding party walks down. We've hired professional photographers who will be taking many photos of the entire day, and we ask you to not stand in their way.

We're asking everyone to please reserve the color white and any variation of white (i.e., ivory) for the bride. Our wedding party will be wearing Black, Ivory, and Pink!

Our ceremony will begin at St. Andrew's Church promptly at 3pm.

Yes! After the ceremony concludes, you will have time to check into the hotel if you have not yet done so before our reception starts at 6pm. We will have a shuttle bus available to take guests from the Residence Inn Orangeburg Rockland/Bergen to the Old Tappan Manor at 5:30pm and a second pick-up at approximately 5:50pm. The shuttle bus will also take guests back to the hotel at the end of the night at 11:10pm and a second trip at approximately 11:30pm.

Yes. St. Andrew's has a big parking lot with multiple entrances. There will be plenty of space for all of our loved ones who will be driving to the church. The Old Tappan Manor also has Valet Parking available.

Yes! Please refer to the 'Travel' tab on our website for hotel information and how to book your accommodations.

The closest airports to the venue and hotel are: Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR) which is about 45 minutes to an hour from the venue and/or hotel. LaGuardia Airport (LGA) and JFK in New York City are each about an hour to the venue and/or hotel depending on traffic.

Alyson will be taking Patrick's last name! We will be addressed as "Mr. & Mrs. Patrick O'Donnell"

Yes! Our hashtag is #PatsHappAlyEverAfter Please be sure to include it in your captions when you post photos on social media so we can relive the day!