Either way is fine! You can RSVP right here on our website or you can return your RSVP card that was included in your invitation!

As soon as possible, but anytime before March 1st, 2025 would be great! This would also be the perfect time to finalize your travel and lodging plans!

Not currently, but we will have Amazon and Target registries available closer to our wedding date!

Since we will also be travelling to our own wedding, we ask that larger gifts be delivered to our home, located at: 892 Wert Road, Hudson, WI 54016. Otherwise, there will be a place available to leave cards and smaller gifts at the venue, next to our "Wishing Well"!

Yes, we have! Please see the "Travel & Lodging" tab for a list of properties that we have reserved rooms at! Mention the Durnford/Smith Wedding when making reservations! Space is limited within these blocks, but there is plenty of other lodging options in the area! Make your travel and lodging plans early!

Yes! We are hosting a Welcome Party at WBC Ballpark on Friday, April 11th, 2025, at 7:00pm! Everyone, including your guests and families, are welcome, and encouraged, to join us for this event!

We're asking that you dress appropriately, following "Cocktail Attire" suggestions, and specifically no jeans.

Due to the unpredictability of spring weather, we are planning on holding both the ceremony and reception indoors.

Please see the "Home" tab of our website for the most up to date wedding day itinerary!

Please plan on arriving 20 -30 minutes prior to our ceremony start time, to allow for parking and seating.

Our welcome party will be held at the Baird Wealth Management Club inside of the WBC Ballpark, located at: 1011 Blue Ribbon Circle North, Oconomowoc, Wisconsin 53066, and both our ceremony and reception will be held at The Bowery Barn, located at: N2201 Co Rd P, Rubicon, WI 53078.

Yes, there is parking available at both the WBC Ballpark and The Bowery Barn! While there is plenty of parking available at the WBC Ballpark, there is limited parking available at The Bowery Barn. Please consider carpooling and/or using app based ride sharing when traveling to and from our wedding.

No, we are not planning on providing any shuttling services to or from The Bowery Barn, at this time.

Yes, absolutely! Both the WBC Ballpark and The Bowery Barn are wheelchair accessible!

If your invitation was addressed to you and a guest, you are absolutely allowed to bring guest! If you RSVP online, you will have an opportunity to share your guest's name with us!

If your invitation was addressed to you and your family, you are absolutely allowed to bring your children!

Yes, there will be about an hour and a half of time between our ceremony and reception. During this time we will be taking photos, but you are welcome to head downstairs and enjoy some cocktails and appetizers!

We will be hosting three draft beers, six house wines, and soda for the entire cocktail hour, dinner, and reception. All other selections will be available for purchase.

We will be providing appetizers during the cocktail hour, a buffet, with a chicken and a beef option, sides, salad, dessert, and a late night snack.

No, at this time we are not planning on offering separate meals for guests with dietary restrictions. Our caterer will be able to better answer any questions you may have about the food we are hosting.

Our reception will conclude at 11:00pm sharp! This will allow time for guests and vendors to be cleaned up and off of the venue property by midnight.

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We will do our absolute best to keep you updated and informed, but our website will always be the best place to find up to date information!

If you have any questions, that we have not answered here, please feel free to reach out directly to us!