To RSVP, click the RSVP table and type the name(s) listed on your envelope. Kindly RSVP before Thursday, August 1, 2024. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate you to still let us know at the soonest opportunity. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a "no" as we will be sending final head counts to vendors after this deadline- you will be missed!

We have blocked out a select amount of rooms at Treasure Island Resort & Casino. Please use the code Bender-Jalivay Wedding when calling to receive a blocked out room. Room reservations close on August 13, 2024. Please visit the "Travel" section on for more details.

Due to the limited capacity of our venue, you may only bring the number of guests given to you on your RSVP. When you got to RSVP, you will be able to see the exact number of people you can RSVP for.

The ceremony will be starting promptly at 3:00pm. We recommend guests arrive between 2:30-2:45pm so there is time to mingle and find your seat.

We want to see you dress your best! Our dress code is Cocktail attire (semi-formal). We recommend suit and tie & cocktail dresses. Please refrain from jeans and other casual attire.

The ceremony will be open seating so sit wherever you please! However, we are requesting you avoid the first 3 rows on each side at the ceremony for our immediate family. For the reception, we will be carefully arranging tables so our guests are sat with those they know. Our vendors will likely be sitting among you, as we will be seating them as well.

YES! We are so grateful to have WONDERFUL photographers and videographers there to capture the most magical moments of our day, so please put your phones away until after the ceremony<3

We will provide a shuttle to Treasure Island Resort & Casino free of charge! Unfortunately other car services do not come out to the area.

Yes! Our venue is is the best and allows overnight parking for guests!

Gifts are welcome and appreciated! Please see our registries under the "registry" tab

For guests who are staying at Treasure Island Resort and Casino, there will be a shuttle to and from the wedding. A shuttle will leave Treasure Island at 2:00 PM to bring guests to the venue. Rooms may not be ready to check in at that time, however, the casino will hold your luggage if needed. There will be two shuttles leaving the reception that will take guests back to the casino. The first will leave at 10:00 PM and the second at 11:30 PM. Also, overnight parking is allowed at the venue, so if you'd like to head straight to the venue you can park there and still take a shuttle back to the casino. Lastly, the venue informed us that Uber is unavailable in the area so please keep that in mind as well. Please reach out if you have any questions!