While we love your kiddos, we ask that our wedding remain an adults-only event. Thank you for your understanding!

Yes, we have a small room block at the Wequassett Resort. We have 10 rooms blocked for 1 night stays at a slighly discounted rate. After those 10 rooms are booked, there are only 2+ night stays allowed due to the holiday weekend.

Cape Cod is very large! The wedding is located in Harwich, but there are many great locations to consider outside of Harwich, such as Chatham, Brewster or Dennis.

Please book your hotel or Airbnb EARLY! We cannot stress this enough! Memorial Day weekend is "opening weekend" for Cape Cod. Many hotels have mandatory minimum stays, and the closer you wait to the actual date, the more expensive it will be.

A formal invitation will be mailed in the coming weeks. A preliminary RSVP section is available on this website. Please let us know early if you know that you expect to be available or unavailable, that will help with our planning. Please note that we will still require a response from our formal invitations, to confirm a final headcount and meal selections!

If you are flying from out of town, we recommend traveling through Boston Logan International Airport (KBOS). There is also an airport in Cape Cod (KHYA), but flights are limited and much more expensive (unless you're one of Tom's pilot friends who will be flying themselves!). Cape Cod is a surprisingly large land mass, but the wedding will be located roughly an hour and a half drive from Boston. You can rent a car at the airport or you could use Turo app, which is a bit cheaper.

Uber is available but not extremely prevalent on Cape Cod. We would recommend booking rideshare app pickups in advance or making other plans for transportation