Selecting Pastor Brian Eastman, associated with MarriageChaplain.com, is the BIGGEST MISTAKE you can make.
During our in-person meeting, I emphasized to Pastor Eastman that I’d ...put my heart into piecing together our ceremony. Closer to our wedding, he had taken out several parts, namely a prayer that was important to me, and I asked that it be added back in. However, on our wedding day, that prayer was never said.
I asked that he go through the ceremony during our rehearsal. He told me, that, ‘no he did not do that, would not do that,’ and that I ‘needed to stop trying to control everything.’ Sure enough, the evening of our rehearsal he spent two minutes telling the bridal party how to line up, REFUSED to even do a QUICK run through of our ceremony and left after being there a total of five minutes.
Pastor Eastman began our ceremony as if it were a CIRCUS, and he was the ring master. He even wore a rainbow scarf to complete his ensemble. Immediately after my dad kissed my cheek, Pastor Eastman smirked loudly and said ‘Don’t trip over her dress now,’ which I found extremely distasteful. Then he made sure to let ALL of our guests know that he ‘was not our Pastor, and agreed to marry us after we contracted him.’
During our ceremony, Pastor Eastman did not stand at the head of my husband and I, but gravitated towards the side, at least 10 feet away from us. This not only made it impossible for my husband to see him without having to turn his whole body away from me, but also shifted the audience attention completely away from the two people getting married.
Just as Pastor Eastman was going to announce us, he said ‘Husbands Name, you may now….OH WAIT, I have an announcement. There will be refreshments inside after the ceremony. Okay now, Husband’s Name, you may kiss your bride,’ interrupting our pronouncement to let everyone know there were refreshments.
Following our wedding day, almost two weeks later, my husband and I called the court to ensure our paperwork had been filed so we were legally married. Turns out, Pastor Eastman, who knew I’d been upset about our ceremony, had been holding our paperwork and REFUSED to send it in. It was only after he realized the legal repercussions of not filing our paperwork that he actually did so.
During this entire process Pastor Eastman did not once take into account our feelings, wishes or even try to work with us on creating the perfect ceremony for US. I HIGHLY advise you against selecting Pastor Eastman, or using any of his services, as he proved to us through the aforementioned, that he is an undeniably arrogant, rude and selfish man.