Botanica, The Wichita Gardens

Celebration of Marriage

Our Wedding

Cody: Bethany and I met at a time of my life where I had pretty much given up on finding love. What are the odds I could find someone with integrity, intelligence, a sense of humor, a brilliant wit, a kind heart, a loving nature, who put Christ at the center of her life? And what are the odds that this perfect woman would want to be with me? I had made the decision to plan for finding happiness with what I had. But as the saying goes, if you want to make God laugh, make a plan.-Little did I know that I would find joy that I never could have imagined. Bethany came into my heart like a thief in the night. Every day with her has been the greatest of my life. Whether we are going on walks in the wilds or shopping for paper towels, flying to far off lands, or in boring meetings, she is my friend and co-conspirator. She is the most beautiful and loving person I know. Just being around her makes me want to be a better version of myself. She embodies what it means to walk as a Christian, giving herself to selflessly helping others and working to make the world a better place. I am the luckiest man in the world to have her in my life and I can’t wait to live this adventure with my best friend and love of my life.-Bethany: On Cody's Hinge profile he had a prompt that made me laugh and I remember thinking, “he sounds like he would be fun to hang out with.” When our date rolled around, I stumbled into the chocolate shop a few minutes early, hoping to adjust my makeup in the bathroom. But lo and behold, there was Cody in a dark blue shirt, looking absolutely dashing and adorable in a corner booth. Welp, suffice to say, the last-minute tidy up was quickly forgotten.-We talked about everything under the sun and he made me laugh like a hyena - that breathless, belly aching kind of laughter. I remember hugging when we left and thinking “man, I really hope this works out.” From that very first date, Cody has colored my world with joy. Life is so much brighter and more beautiful than I ever could have dreamed. He is the answer to years of hopes and prayers. Every day with him is an adventure and, trust me, there is never a dull moment. His selfless love, patience, and kindness never cease to amaze. Every day he shows me how soft and pure and good love is. He never wavers. I couldn’t ask for a better partner. Cody Lee, you are my best friend and the love of my life. I love you!

B & C Make History

Our Story

Photos

Sydney 

Kristen

Rebekah

Anna

Jericho

Nathaniel

Wedding Party

Dress Code

Hilton Garden Inn WichitaThis Hilton is located in Bradley Fair which is a shopping and dining district on the east side. There is an onsite-restaurant, indoor pool, and fitness center. It is a 20-minute drive from our venue. Website: <a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/ictwhgi-hilton-garden-inn-wichita/?flexibleDates=false&amp;numRooms=1&amp;numAdults=1&amp;numChildren=0&amp;room1ChildAges=&amp;room1AdultAges=&amp;sessionToken=39b5f556-9491-404f-807a-39e55b09ce1b" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Hilton Garden Inn Wichita, KS - Hotel At A Glance</a>.Address: <a href="https://www.google.com/maps/search/?api=1&amp;query=Hilton+Garden+Inn+Wichita%2C+2041+North+Bradley+Fair+Parkway+Wichita%2C+KS+US" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">2041 North Bradley Fair Parkway, Wichita, Kansas, 67206</a>.Phone: 316-219-4444.

Travel

Play some pickleball, try your luck at cornhole, and enjoy some delicious food. This place has such a fun atmosphere and is one of my favorites!

Chicken N Pickle - Wichita

One of our absolute favorite restaurants, there are lots of delicious options to choose from here - everything from burgers to chicken pot pie.

Bricktown Brewery

Nothing quite beats their chai latte and I'm sure you'll discover your favorite drink here! :)

Aroma Coffeehouse

Look no further for an absolutely delectable meal!

Gabbys Peruvian Restaurant

This is the perfect brunch spot and the freshly squeezed orange juice is the best too. Make sure you check on wait times as this place is often popping!

HomeGrown Wichita - West

Things to Do

What date should I RSVP by?Please RSVP by Friday, February 27th, 2026. That way, we can let the venue and catering know our guest count :) What should I wear?Formal attire. For men: dress pants and dress shirt. For women: a dress, romper, or skirt and blouse. Feel free to bring a jacket or shawl as Kansas weather in April can be iffy. If considering wearing heels, please note the ceremony will be outdoors on the grass. Where and when is it?Our wedding takes place on Friday, April 17th at the Botanica garden in Wichita, KS. The ceremony will be outdoors in the Chinese garden, and the following meal and reception will be indoors in the adjoining Lotus Hall. If the weather is bad, all of it will take place indoors. What is the day of itinerary? 10:30am: Ceremony starts in the Chinese Garden at the Botanica.11am: Coffee bar and yard games for guests while the family and wedding party take pictures.12pm: Meal.1:30pm: Toasts &amp; Dessert. 3pm: Closing. Can I bring a plus one? What about children?Please only bring invited guests as there is limited capacity with our catering. Where do I park?You can park in the main parking lot of the Botanica. You will not need to pay the entrance fee for the garden; just tell them you are there for the Bell-Lindeman wedding. If you are unsure where to go, both signage and staff will point you in the right direction :)

B & Cody

B & Cody

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