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The story of Lily and Keith began the same way as those of countless others—with a swipe, a click of a virtual rose, and a swipe back.&nbsp;That is, of course, if you consider their initial encounter as the beginning.&nbsp; Actually, 1979 is when it all started.&nbsp;On the campus of Zhejiang University, a student named Hunt met a student named Tom.&nbsp;The two became the closest of friends, a bond that connected their respective families over the next four decades.&nbsp;Little did they know that 45 years later, they would each hear the news that Hunt’s niece, Lily, and Tom’s nephew, Keith, would go on a date on the other side of the world.&nbsp;One could see those first 45 years as a prequel, but to Lily and Keith, the friendship of their two families over the years is so fundamental to their relationship that they consider it as a part of their own story.&nbsp;&nbsp; Like any lawyer doing due diligence, Keith never went on a first date without doing his research.&nbsp;Is she pretty? Absolutely—after a quick glance at her Facebook profile.&nbsp;Does she have a good job and go to a good school?&nbsp;Confirmed easily after looking her up on LinkedIn.&nbsp;Keith doesn’t consider himself a “checklist” kind of guy, but after a year on the dating apps, it became obvious that an initial screening was a necessary part of the process.&nbsp;However, in all his time doing diligence, he’s never encountered a girl like Lily.&nbsp;Lily had it all—not just looks and background, but she was also mutual “friends” with Keith’s longtime childhood family friends.&nbsp;Oh, and did we mention?&nbsp;She also shares their last name.&nbsp;His interest peaked immediately. Despite all the pre-date online chatter, Keith was anxious to meet Lily and to unravel the mystique surrounding her.&nbsp;Lily, on the other hand, was completely oblivious.&nbsp;She walked into the date already semi-buzzed from an earlier birthday party and was more excited about the food than the date.&nbsp;When they were finally face-to-face, Keith popped the question.&nbsp;No, not that question, but rather, “Hey, do you know so and so”?&nbsp;Naturally, she was shocked by the question and said, “Yes! They are my cousins!”&nbsp;For the next three hours, they bonded over their upbringing, their family history, and their common interests. Notwithstanding Lily being an M&amp;A management consultant and Keith an M&amp;A lawyer, the two didn’t immediately find much to talk about regarding their careers.&nbsp;After all, Lily did multi-billion-dollar deals, whereas Keith’s deals were usually in the millions.&nbsp;The gap was simply too large.&nbsp;Luckily for Keith, Lily is a diehard Golden State Warriors fan, and he found the opportunity he needed to impress Lily with his abundance of arguably useless sports knowledge accumulated over the years.&nbsp;Lily, for whatever reason, found Keith to be interesting enough to award him a second date.&nbsp; A second date was followed by a rocky third, where Lily almost inadvertently friend-zoned Keith.&nbsp;However, by the fourth date, it became obvious to both that they were serious about one another.&nbsp;After they returned from a successful trip to Hawaii to celebrate New Year’s 2024, things accelerated at light speed.&nbsp;By Summer 2024, they traveled together across China—first to Beijing to meet Keith’s father, next to Henan to visit his grandmother, and ultimately to Shanghai to meet Lily’s parents and grandparents.&nbsp;By Fall 2024, they began looking for a home together, visiting over 50 open houses over the course of two months.&nbsp;By Winter 2024, the two had moved into their dream home, and invited their respective parents over from China to spend the holidays together.&nbsp; It's safe to say Lily’s life was smooth sailing before she met Keith, but Keith’s personal life finally found fair winds only after he found Lily.&nbsp;The timing of their meeting was auspicious to say the least.&nbsp;As luck would have it, they avoided meeting each other for nearly 30 years until the timing was just right.&nbsp;Had their families introduced them sooner, they most likely would have resisted the set up and would not have ended up together.&nbsp;But because they serendipitously stumbled upon one another over a dating app some 30 years later, not only was their encounter blessed by luck but also by the love and support of their families.&nbsp;

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San Francisco International Airport (SFO)~100 miles, 2.5 hour drive from SFO to Carmel San Jose Mineta International Airport (SJC)~80 miles, 1.5 hour drive from SJC to Carmel Monterey Regional Airport (MRY)~10 miles, 20 minute drive to from MRY to CarmelOperates with Alaska, Allegiant, American, Sun Country, and United Airlines, flying out of limited locations.

Transportation

Carmel is easily accessible by car, with the most common routes being via Highway 1 (Pacific Coast Highway) or Highway 68. Our wedding venue, Quail Lodge Clubhouse, is located just 10 minutes from downtown proper, offering a quick and scenic drive to the venue. ShuttlesOur ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 pm. Please plan to arrive at Quail Lodge Clubhouse (Peninsula Ballroom) no later than 4:15 pm to take the shuttle to our ceremony location. Shuttles will only be provided directly to our ceremony location upon your arrival at Quail Lodge Clubhouse (Peninsula Ballroom), NOT The Quail lobby. Please note that transportation from your hotel to the venue, as well as return transportation at the end of the evening, will need to be arranged separately. ParkingComplimentary self-parking is located directly across the street from the Quail Lode Clubhouse (Peninsula Ballroom). There is a parking lot is labeled, "Guest Parking - Land Rover Experience." Parking is very limited, so we highly recommend carpooling or using a rideshare service. Parking in the main lot of Quail Lodge Clubhouse (Peninsula Ballroom) is for member's only, and not permitted for our guets. Taxi and RideshareRide-sharing options like Uber and Lyft are available for direct transportation to Quail Lodge Clubhouse. Please be aware that availability may vary based on the time of day and your location within Carmel. Additionally, traffic tends to be heavier in the downtown areas, so we recommend requesting your ride in advance to ensure timely arrival.

Travel / Transportation

Our wedding venue is conveniently located between downtown Carmel-by-the-Sea and Carmel Valley, offering a variety of accommodation options in both areas. We've included below a few options that are closest to the wedding venue. As our wedding weekend will be a busy time in Carmel, we highly recommend securing your accommodations early to ensure availability.

The Quail

8205 Valley Greens DriveCarmel-By-The-Sea, CA 93923To book your reservation, please visit their <a href="https://www.quaillodge.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a>, or call the hotel directly at (831) 624-2888.

Hyatt Regency Monterey Hotel & Spa

For your convenience, we have a block of rooms available at a discounted rate for our wedding weekend. 1 Old Golf Course RoadMonterey, CA 93940 To book your reservation, please call the hotel at (800) 233-1234 and reference the code: G-LJKG. You can also book your reservation online <a href="https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/group-booking/MRYDM/G-LJKG" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>. The deadline book your room is August 22, 2025.

Carmel Mission Inn

3665 Rio RoadCarmel-By-The-Sea, CA 93923To book your reservation, please visit their <a href="https://www.carmelmissioninn.com/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=search&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwhYS_BhD2ARIsAJTMMQYGfFN5re3gJN4NuzaDUXAiXdIgpg4uXeyiTO6xhKbITF3vlCNnHR8aAsMsEALw_wcB" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a>, or call the hotel directly at (855) 235-3915. .

Carmel Valley Ranch

1 Old Ranch RoadCarmel-By-The-Sea, CA 93923To book your reservation, please visit their&nbsp;<a href="https://carmelvalleyranch.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a>, or call the hotel directly at (855) 687-7262..

Carmel Valley Lodge

8 Ford RoadCarmel Valley, CA 93924To book your reservation, please visit their&nbsp;<a href="https://www.valleylodge.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">website</a>, or call the hotel directly at (831) 659-2261.

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Carmel-by-the-Sea is a charming coastal town with a lot to offer. Whether you're into outdoor adventures, art, or just relaxing, there’s something for everyone. Here are some top things to do in Carmel

With its welcoming, small-town feel, Carmel-by-the-Sea offers visitors a peaceful retreat, whether you’re looking to relax by the beach, discover local art, or indulge in the beauty of nature. It’s a place where time slows down, and every corner holds something magical to discover

Carmel by the sea

This beautiful white-sand beach offers stunning views of the Pacific Ocean, perfect for a peaceful stroll, a picnic, or simply watching the sunset.

Carmel Beach

One of the most famous scenic drives in the world, 17-Mile Drive takes you along the Pacific coastline, past Pebble Beach Golf Course, and through beautiful forests. Be sure to stop at iconic spots like the Lone Cypress and the Spanish Bay.

17 Mile Dr California

The Carmel Valley area is known for its wineries and tasting rooms. Spend a day sampling some of the region's best wines while enjoying stunning vineyard views.

Carmel Valley Wine Tours / Tours Monterey

If you're a golfer, you can’t visit Carmel without trying to play at the world-renowned Pebble Beach Golf Links, one of the most famous and scenic courses in the world.

Pebble Beach Golf Links

Historic and vibrant, Cannery Row is a waterfront street that once housed sardine canneries. Now it features shops, restaurants, art galleries, and attractions like the Pacific House Museum. It’s perfect for a leisurely stroll with ocean views.

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Lily & Keith

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