"During the cocktail hour, Tom and I got to eat dinner," Hillary says. "It is something that we weren’t sure about at first. We had really wanted to join the cocktail hour. But in the end it was perfect. We were able to take pleasure in some alone time to soak in what had just happened. We were able to eat, which a lot of couples don’t get to do, and we were able to enjoy our food choices and relax before the craziness of our reception."