What you wear to church on Sunday is perfect. No white dresses at all, only the bride is allowed to wear a white dress.

Absolutely your children are welcome, because our children will be there.

Open bar until we run out, but you can bring your own alcohol. We just prefer no glass. We will also have soda, lemonade, tea, and water.

Absolutely not. We are perfectly okay with a card. We want you to join us on our wedding day. Just showing up and spending the day with us is a perfect gift.