LUXBAR

Rehearsal Dinner

Welcome Drinks

Holy Name Cathedral

Ceremony

Pazzo's at 311

Reception

O'Callaghan's

After Party

Derno's

Bears Watch Party

Spring

Our Wedding

On a chilly Saturday afternoon in Chicago, Abby and her friend Lauren headed to Wrigleyville for a fun day out. Their mutual friend Ben invited them to meet him and his childhood friend Joey at Sluggers—a moment that would change everything.&nbsp; Abby had never met Joey before, but when they arrived, she walked right up and introduced herself. From the first conversation, something just clicked. They spent the rest of the night laughing and getting to know each other (Pictured above - their first photo together that night at Sluggers). Before they left, they exchanged numbers and just five days later they had their first date at Butcher’s Tap. It didn’t take long to realize this was the real deal and their love story began.&nbsp; Their relationship has been filled with endless adventures—visits to Lincoln Park Zoo, unforgettable trips to cities all over the country, quick weekend getaways to Wisconsin and Michigan, football Sundays at Derno’s (their favorite local bar), and countless date nights exploring Chicago. &nbsp;Then, on November 21, 2024, what Abby thought was their annual Christmas Date Night turned into a moment she’d never forget. After strolling through the twinkling Lincoln Park Zoo Lights, Joey got down on one knee and asked Abby to marry him.&nbsp; It was the easiest “yes” of her life. Now, they can’t wait to spend forever together and celebrate with all their favorite people on December 6, 2025!!!&nbsp;

Our Story 

The Engagement

Photos

 Best Friend from High School / Sister in Law 

Ashley Buckland

Eric Dziubyk

Molly Rolando 

Ryan Cassady

Annie Prucha 

Mikey Cassady 

Kelly Cassady

Trey Buckland

Kelsey Tilton

Ben Wolf 

Bethy Wille

Nick Stark

Maryanne Kiley

Christian Avitia 

Riley Hayes 

Roy Pettingill

Lauren Kelley

Rocco Fasanella 

Joe Bieda 

Anthony Balderas 

Jon Magnusson

Wedding Party

Q + A

The wedding room block will be at The Westin Michigan Avenue, a place that holds a special meaning for Abby. Her first job out of college was in the Marriott Management in Training program. They placed her at this very hotel where she worked for 3 years and it gave her the opportunity to call Chicago home. You can use the following link or call the reservations line to book - the last day to book for our block is November 6th. Booking Website: https://book.passkey.com/e/50956696 Reservations Line: 1-888-627-8385 and reference Buckland / Cassady Wedding Room Block. The link will only work for dates December 5th-7th, 2025. If you are looking to arrive earlier, stay outside your contracted dates or book a suite, please contact the in-house reservations team directly at 312.943.7200 and ask for in-house reservations.

The Westin Michigan Avenue Chicago

Travel

Between the ceremony and reception, take a little time to explore the city we love. Check out our map of great bars and restaurants to enjoy a cocktail or two as you make your way to the reception!

One of Abby and Joey's favorite activities AND it's free. Check it out if you have any free time while in town!

Abby & Joey

Abby & Joey

Registry