Hey there! Abby here, ready to take you on a quick stroll down memory lane—our nine-year journey, to be exact. We thought it would be fun to share the highlights, from my perspective (because let’s be real, who knows the details better than me?). You all have your own piece of our story, from the times you’ve shared with Zane or me, but this is how it all began. It’s funny when we think about how things started because, honestly, if you’d told me nine years ago that I’d be writing our wedding website together, I probably would’ve laughed. But here we are! And looking back, I’m so grateful for how our paths crossed. So, picture this: I was in college, I had a previous roommate who just so happened to be friends with Zane from high school. She was one of those people who could connect the dots between the most random groups of people, and I’m pretty sure she had a sixth sense when it came to matchmaking. One night, we were at a house party when I ran into her unexpectedly. We snapped a photo together, because, well, when in doubt, take a picture. She posted it on her Snapchat, and that’s when the magic started. A little while later, I get a message from her saying, "So, my friend Zane thinks you're adorable and wants to meet you!" Now, let me be clear: I wasn’t shy, but I was also a little skeptical. But I took a chance, and honestly, it was one of the best chances I ever took. A few days later, Zane drove from Hastings, NE, to Hays, KS just to meet me. And I swear, from that moment, everything clicked. We chatted, laughed, and even when things got quiet, it felt like we had known each other forever. It’s crazy to think back on that first meeting and how much has changed since. Nine years later, I can’t help but smile at how lucky it all was—two people, a mutual friend, a chance encounter, and now we’re about to get married. It was meant to be, and we are beyond thankful to each of you for being part of this wild, wonderful journey. Thanks for being part of our story. Here's to the next chapter!

I’ll never forget the first time I went to Hastings to meet Zane’s family. They made me feel so comfortable, and I knew right away I’d fit in perfectly. Of course, I had to tease Zane the whole weekend, telling him he still hadn’t officially asked me to be his girlfriend. On my drive back to Hays, Zane called and told me he’d left something for me in my car—a handwritten note. He told me not to open it until I got home. I read the whole note and at the very end it said “ Will you be my girlfriend?” I’ll never forget that moment—sweet, charming, and completely perfect. Of course, I said yes.

We started dating and it felt like everything clicked. It was easy, natural, and full of laughs. We spent hours talking, sharing stories, and enjoying each other's company—nothing forced, just two people who knew this was the beginning of something special. From that moment on, we were inseparable.

Getting Royal was not an easy choice. I was hesitant as I knew dogs were a lot of work. Zane convinced me it would be okay and that she doesnt shed. (if you have ever met Royal, you know this is a lie). From the moment she joined into our lives, we knew she was meant to be ours. She’s brought so much joy, love, and laughter into our home—our little fur baby who we spoil endlessly. We can’t imagine life without her!

Our concert journey kicked off with a bang when Zane took me to the last ever Warped Tour. I'll be honest—it wasn’t exactly my kind of music, but in that moment, as we stood there together, I knew I’d do anything for this man. It wasn’t about the bands, it was about sharing an experience with him. And from then on, we’ve made so many memories at concerts, each one more unforgettable than the last.

Dating Zane was effortless from the start—lots of laughter, easy conversations, and just pure happiness. Things were falling into place, and then he made it even better by moving to Hays. With him here, everything felt even more real, and I knew we were building something special.

Since we first met through Snapchat, it only made sense that we’d keep the tradition alive. We had a blast snapping silly photos with every filter imaginable—those goofy faces became some of our favorite memories. It's our little way of capturing the fun and laughter we share, one filter at a time!

It feels crazy to think that when I first met Zane, I wasn’t even old enough to legally drink! But honestly, it was kind of perfect—because that just meant we got to celebrate a lot of important birthdays together. Each one felt extra special, marking another year of us growing and making memories side by side. HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Our first trip to Colorado with my family was unforgettable. Zane fit right in with my family, and it felt like we were creating memories that would last a lifetime. It was the start of many more adventures to come! No luck at the Casino :(

Like our adventures to the pumpkin patch. Whether it’s picking out the perfect pumpkin or getting lost in the corn maze, these little traditions have become some of our favorite memories. Each adventure, big or small, just brings us closer together.

Zane even took me to my first Nebraska Husker football game, and I remember thinking, “I have nothing red to wear!” Fast forward to now, and my closet is basically all Husker gear. It’s funny how much I’ve embraced it. Well, now I’m proudly wearing Husker red for Zane! It’s just one of the many ways I’ve fallen in love with him... and his team.

By this point, we were over two years into our relationship, attending weddings of our friends and family. I’m sure I was nudging Zane with every "Isn't this beautiful?" and "One day, huh?"—dropping not-so-subtle hints that we should be next! But as we all know, Zane didnt get the hints, so keep scrolling...

Zane stood by my side as I graduated with my Bachelor of Arts in Graphic Design and a Minor in Art Entrepreneurship from Fort Hays State University. His support through all the late nights and hard work made that day even more special. I couldn’t have asked for a better person to celebrate such a big achievement with!

We’ve always loved camping—roasting marshmallows, stargazing, and escaping into nature. Those simple moments are some of our favorite memories together.

Just as Zane supported me, I was there for him too—holding his hand as he took his first plane ride for our first solo trip to California. It was a big adventure for both of us, going to Los Angeles without any set plans.

One of the highlights of our California trip was definitely seeing the ocean together for the first time.

Even after over four years together, we’ve never lost that spark or our goofy side. We still laugh like we did in the beginning, making silly faces and sharing inside jokes. It’s that perfect balance of love, laughter, and endless fun that keeps us going strong.

Zane grew his hair out, and I grew a little impatient, waiting for him to finally ask me to be a Nelson. But, exploring the Nelson-Atkins Museum together made me realize there’s more than one Nelson I love. It was the perfect day, and it just made me even more excited for the future—our future, with a Nelson of my own!

We made it through a pandemic together, and even with all the uncertainty, we still managed to cross something off Zane's bucket list—going to a Chiefs game! It was a perfect escape, full of excitement and memories, reminding us that even in tough times, there’s always room for adventure.

Some adventures come to an end, and it was time for a change. After five amazing years in Hays, we packed up and moved on to the next chapter. It was bittersweet leaving the home where we had grown so much together, but we’re excited for what’s ahead, knowing that wherever we go, we’ll always make it ours.

WE MOVED TO LINCOLN, NE!

And, just to seal the deal—I’m now a full-blown Nebraska fan! From the first game to now, I’ve fully embraced the red, the rivalry, and the whole Husker spirit. Zane knew what he was doing! THE SCARLET AND THE CREAM! iykyk

We were off to Arizona, and things were feeling pretty exciting. Zane and I had gone ring shopping, and now he was asking me to get my nails done before our trip. I couldn’t help but think—this might finally be the moment he asks me to marry him. But of course, life had other plans. Here I am, sick in bed just before we’re supposed to leave for our first night out. I end up at urgent care, and I’m sure Zane was sweating, not knowing if our trip—or the proposal—would even happen. But true to form, he took care of me every step of the way, showing me just how much he cares even through the unexpected bumps.

As we walked through the botanical gardens in Phoenix, with the sunset casting its warm glow, I could tell Zane was nervous. He kept glancing at me, fidgeting a bit—something was definitely on his mind........

FINALLY!!!! He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes! (i don't know why he was so nervous, like I was going to say no!) BEST DAY EVER!!

Zane planned the most beautiful trip for the rest of the weekend, and we got to explore all that Arizona had to offer. From the stunning landscapes to the quiet moments together, it was a weekend I’ll never forget. Arizona will forever hold a special place in my heart.

You might have thought that was the end of our story, but Zane and I like to do things to the beat of our own drum. Instead of rushing into a wedding, we bought a house together. We knew we were meant to be, so there was no rush—just taking our time, building our future, and making our home.

We were truly happy, turning our little house into our home. Every room, every corner, filled with memories and laughter. It wasn’t just a house—it was ours, and it felt perfect.

He must have been worth it if I went to this many sporting events—including ones in the rain! But honestly, every moment was worth it. Cheering alongside him, braving the weather, it all just made the experience even more fun.

As much as I went to his sports games, Zane was right there with me for my theme nights out with friends. He always made sure we had a blast—and made sure we got home safe every time. It’s those little things that make all the difference.

But we also found something we both loved together—music and going to concerts. Whether it was a big show or a small venue, there was nothing like experiencing live music side by side. Those nights became our thing.

We even made our garden our first year as home owners. Royal enjoyed it too!

Dang! We clean up nice. :)

We even made it a point to look our best for date nights out. Whether it was a casual dinner or a special event, getting dressed up and enjoying each other's company was always a highlight. It was our way of making the ordinary feel a little extra special.

We may have had an amazing view at the College World Series, but my favorite view will always be Zane. ( I know that was cheesy, but he cute!)

A lot of people might think our dog, Royal, is named after our favorite team, but she's actually named after the song Royals by Lorde. I told you we loved music!

We can proudly say we’re a part of history. We attended Volleyball Day in Lincoln, NE, at Memorial Stadium, where the 2023 event set a world record for attendance at a women’s sporting event with 92,003 fans! It also broke the record for the largest crowd in Memorial Stadium’s 100-year history. Being part of that incredible moment was something we’ll never forget.

Oh, and did I mention we absolutely love going to concerts? We even started keeping a list of all the people we have seen.

I absolutely love our little family—me, Zane, and our fur baby, Royal. We may be small, but we’re full of love. It’s everything I’ve ever wanted and more.

Wedding prep is in full swing, and we’re beyond grateful for everything we’ve built together. Thank you to everyone who has loved and encouraged us, both separately and as a couple. We can’t wait to celebrate with you all! June 7th, 2025—see you then!!! (This is our venue pictured)

Taking our engagement photos was so special to us—it was the first time we’d ever had professional photos together. Capturing this moment in time felt like the perfect way to celebrate our love, and we’ll treasure these memories forever.

"Surrounded by love, ready to party!" We’re so thankful for everyone in our lives—your support and encouragement mean the world to us. Can’t wait to celebrate with all of you on June 7th, 2025!