Wedding Day

New England Air Museum

Ceremony

Reception

Rehearsal & Dinner

Our Wedding

It all started with a Superlike.

In early 2021, Abby and John matched on Tinder. John's bio was a delightful mix of humor and chaos (something about burning himself on a pizza?), and Abby couldn't resist asking about his culinary misadventures. Their chat quickly turned into a sweet and silly exchange, sealed with a mutual appreciation for the superior flavors of pink and red Starbursts.

Their first date was at&nbsp;In a Pickle, a cozy breakfast spot near Abby's place. John had grand plans to take her flying, but Abby wisely suggested a meal first - just in case. Despite COVID-era time limits on restaurant tables, their conversation flowed effortlessly, covering everything from Star Wars, to their families, to John's life as a pilot. They both secretly wondered if the other might be rich (A pilot! Someone who works at Bentley!), but quickly realized they were building something far more valuable than a bank account: a love story. Abby texted John for a second date before she even got home. John, who hadn't wanted to come on too strong by asking too quickly, was thrilled. Their friends still tease Abby for taking her sweet time to admit John was her boyfriend - he was sure long before she was ready to say it out loud.

Their first Valentine's Day was a rom-com moment. Abby whipped up homemade penne alla vodka, and John arrived with gluten-free chocolate and a toy for Holly, Abby's cat (who has since accepted John as her primary human). He also came with far too many bottles of paint and a plan to paint Bob Ross canvases - the paintings hang above their bed to this day. That night, Abby knew: this guy was something special. From there, the adventures took off - literally. John frequently flies them to Kimball Farm in New Hampshire (because why go to the one three minutes away when you can arrive in style?). They've explored Disney World, soaked up the sun in St. Maarten, and danced their way through&nbsp;at least&nbsp;15 weddings. Together, they've celebrated promotions, supported each other through challenges, and built a life full of laughter, love, and cozy nights in.

Then came the proposal - wrapped in Christmas magic. Every year, Abby's dad crafts a homemade advent calendar, and Abby shares daily videos opening each drawer. This time, John had a plan. He asked her dad for the final drawer and tucked the ring inside. Abby had her suspicions, but logic kept her grounded. That morning, she even texted her sister, "I'm being silly - he's way too calm." But when she opened the last drawer and saw the ring, she was truly surprised. Christmas has always been magical for Abby, and now it holds a memory she'll cherish forever. Together, Abby and John are a perfect blend of adventure and cozy comfort - proof that sometimes, the best love stories start with a swipe and a Superlike.

Our Story

Photos

Danii and Abby have been two peas in a pod for just shy of 20 years! Though their parents' relationship was short-lived, the friendship they formed in a Friendly's in 2007 was unbreakable. They have been there for each milestone, and have never let the 150 mile distance keep them apart.

Danii Triscari

Alex and John met in T-Class (something that Abby was confident was made up!), and their frequent shenanigans made the pair instant best friends. 

Alex LaHair

Abby's "built-in-bestie" (even though they were high school enemies), Nina is Abby's second older sister. Nina and Abby have grown nearly inseparable in the years after college, where despite attending a school with only 2,000 other students, they avoided one another at all costs. Now, Abby is the unofficial oldest child of the Valenti household, with a bed always made and ready for her to stay.

Nina Valenti

Formerly known as Frank's "upstairs wife", Abby & Frank have been peas in a pod since high school. Coffee, Disney, and Lord of the Rings have bonded them forever. When Frank and John met, they were instantly partners in crime. When all together, Abby typically leaves them to their devices.

Frank Valenti

Jenn is Abby's oldest sister, though their age difference doesn't stop them! The two have grown closer since the pandemic (one of the few good things to come from that time!), and have been known to be stuck between always having a deep conversation or laughing hysterically - rarely ever in between.

Jennifer McClain

Harrison married Jenn when Abby was a 15-year-old emo kid - and boy, did she think her sister's musician husband was a cool one. Since meeting in 2021, Harrison and John frequently get up to hijinx and always have a great time.

Harrison McClain

Stefanie, the middle Panetta sibling, loves to call her brother "stupid" and often finds herself being locked out of the house by her younger brother. Abby and Stefanie hit it off instantly, with their shared love of Harry Potter, renaissance faires, and Disney.

Stefanie Korobkin

Andrew Korobkin

Sam is the quintessential older sibling of the Panetta clan. She loves to egg her three daughters on to "get Uncle Johnny" by threatening him with glitter. Abby & Sam have a shared love of smutty books.

Samantha Foster

Chris Foster

Who would have ever thought that the phrase "Can I put my cheese in your fridge?" would have sparked a decade-long friendship? Abby & Caroline were instant besties, meeting in Scholars Hall at Curry College. 

Abby & John

Abby & John

Things to Do

The Amazing World of Dr. Seuss Museum

Brignole Vineyards

Connecticut Science Center

The Mark Twain House & Museum

MGM Springfield

Naismith Basketball Hall of Fame

Six Flags New England

Wadsworth Atheneum Museum of Art