Saint John Brebeuf Parish

Wedding Ceremony

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Our Wedding

It all started at Loyola, where we met for a study session. We ended up taking a break to watch the sunset at Montrose Beach, and before we knew it, we were talking for hours—staying up until 3 a.m. We didn’t want the night to end, but Abby had an exam the next morning, so we said goodbye, knowing we’d see each other again soon. A few days later, we met up again, and from there, we couldn’t stop texting and making plans. A few weeks later, we were officially dating, and our story was just beginning. Over the next few years, we navigated some big milestones together. Patrick worked through medical school, while Abby finished her college degree. We moved into our first apartment in Wicker Park, right in the heart of Chicago, where we made memories, adopted two kittens, and supported each other through all of life’s ups and downs. When Abby was accepted into dental school at the University of Iowa, it meant a long-distance stretch for us. But our love grew even stronger. We alternated weekends to visit each other and continued traveling the world together, no matter the miles. As we begin this next chapter, we’re excited to start our careers and find our first home in Chicago - and build a future filled with love, adventure, and new beginnings.

Our Story

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I met Abby when we were both biochemistry majors at Loyola Chicago. From studying late nights to sharing countless adventures in Chicago, we quickly became inseparable. Despite living miles apart—I'm originally from Arizona and now getting my master’s at Dartmouth—our bond has only grown stronger. I'm honored to stand by Abby’s side on this special day and looks forward to celebrating this new chapter together.

Natalia Etsitty

Born and raised in Chicago, I’m now a Police Officer in Barrington Hills. I met Patrick in Polish school, on a field trip to Poland (ask me stories from that trip, we almost lost him). Returning home, we continued to create unique memories, adventures, and countless shenanigans. I have the honor to stand by Patrick as his best man on this special day, wishing him and Abby a lifetime of laughter, witty banter, happiness, and growth.

Dennis Walega

I know Abby through my relationship with her future brother-in-law. Over the years, we’ve spent some quality time together, going to family gatherings, social outings, holiday parties, etc. and I've had the chance to get to know her and see the incredible bond she shares with Patrick. She's warm, kind-hearted, and always makes me feel welcomed. I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity to stand by Abby on their special day. I wish you both a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and happiness.

Cheers to new adventures, growth, and unforgettable memories! 

Claudia Wec

I’m from Chicago and work as a captain on Lake Michigan. Patrick and I met at the hospital when I was born. As brothers, we sometimes fought but no matter the arguments, we could always count on one another. I have countless memories from our childhood that I will cherish for life. From sledding while being pulled behind Patrick's ATV, to cliff jumping together in Missouri, I can’t wait to share more memories in adulthood! I wish Patrick and Abby all the best in their new chapter of life.

Eric Krol

I’m the proud cousin of the beautiful bride! I’ve watched Abby grow up and we’ve shared some memorable moments, especially during our time at Loyola, where our paths overlapped in college. I’ll never forget when my husband and I visited Abby and Patrick’s first apartment together. It was a special glimpse into their life as a couple, full of fun and laughter. I’m honored to be a part of their wedding day and to celebrate the love they’ve built

Emily Woyansky

I live in Iowa City where I just graduated from University of Iowa. I am taking a gap year as an EMT before applying to Medical School. Patrick and I met through my sister, and his fiancee, Abby.

Carter Weyman

I’m a medical student at Loyola. Abby and I went to the same college in undergrad but we actually met on a beach in Michigan. Patrick and my soon-to-be husband Alek went to the same medical school so we met through them 5 years ago and Abby very quickly became one of my closest friends. We’ve been on so many fun outings and trips together that I lost count! I love all of our brunches, dinners, birthdays, late nights, pool days, vacations, New Year’s parties, all of it. It’s such an honor to be in her bridal party and to be there when she picked out her wedding dress! I truly cherish Abby as a friend - she’s such a kind and genuine person. I’m so happy our paths crossed and can’t wait to celebrate her and Patrick’s new chapter together.

Delia Shaher

I live in Chicago where I’m an anesthesiology resident at Cook County Hospital. At the beginning of medical school, I knew Patrick was the real deal when he showed up to a kayak trip on the Illinois River in torrential downpour. Our friendship started in a soggy tent and continues to be defined by ill-advised adventures on boats, motorcycles, skis, and snowboards.

Alek Wood

Abby and I sat next to each other during our first week of dental school orientation and quickly became friends. Throughout dental school we realized how much we had in common - both of us notoriously avoided going to in-person lectures, loved traveling and the city, and were determined to find ways to enjoy our lives during our busy year. The first year of dental school was a challenging time, but I am so glad it brought Abby and I together. I am a firm believer that you are the average of the people you spend the most time around, and I am happy to have Abby be a part of that for me. I am so excited to support her and Patrick and see the beautiful life they make together!

Jessica Beetner

I'm from Chicago and work as a patent attorney. I met Patrick in 1st grade at religious school, where we bonded over our eccentric professor who gave us candy and money. Long story short, we survived religious school. We met again in high school where we played for the water polo team and have been friends ever since.

Christian Karpinski

During our first day of dental school orientation, we were asked to switch seats multiple times to mingle with new classmates. I ended up sitting next to a girl named Abby, and soon found out we both had strong ties to Chicago and were alums from two of the Midwest’s finest Jesuit Catholic universities.

Match made in heaven?
Match made in heaven.

I’m Jessie—a tooth freak and cat lover, just like Abby—and I couldn’t be more excited to celebrate her special day this summer!!

Jessica Gomez

 I was born and raised in Chicago. As for my daily life I work in the field of construction management. Patrick and I met at a very young age through our parents being good friends. From there we became basically “cousins”. Most of our scars are from us being daredevils when pushing each other to our limits. He’s the guy I can rely on and call to do anything or go anywhere haha. 

Kevin Jodlos

I live in Chicago where I am a Dentist in Oak Park, IL. Patrick and I first met in the 5th grade when we were both the new kids at Shabonee Elementary! Through middle school, high school, college, professional school + residency, Patrick and I have always been there for each other. I cannot wait to be by your side during your next chapter man, congratulations!

Oleg Nagorny

Abby and I met wayyy back in high school! We were in orchestra together and had a lot of mutual friends. After undergrad, I moved to Chicago and was working at a gym while earning my Masters degree. One day when I was working, I randomly noticed Abby working out! Chicago truly is such a small city, and abby and I were able to rekindle our friendship while we were both living in Wicker Park. My most favorite memories with Abby are from celebrating our birthdays each year and getting to have such fun experiences exploring the city! Abby is always down to try something new and it’s been so fun getting to grow our friendship so long after High School <3

Heidi O'Brien

Patrick and I went to Glenbrook North High School together where we were on the swim team for all 4 years. After college, we reconnected after discovering we were next-door neighbors in Wicker Park, Chicago. We instantly started hanging out all the time, riding motorcycles to catch the fireworks at Navy Pier or listening to music on the back deck of our apartments with our girlfriends (now wives). I’m very proud of Patrick for being such a genuinely kind person, and for how hard he works at pursuing his career in medicine. My wife, Alissa and I are so happy that Patrick and Abby found each other - they are a perfect match and we cannot wait to see the magical future they will build together. We love you both!

Ryan Fields

I'm from Chicago but currently live in St. Louis, MO. Patrick and I met in 5th grade (math class?) when we were blessed with his arrival at Shabonee Middle School. Shortly after meeting Patrick also joined my swim team where we became lane mates. He went on to have an accomplished career in the pool while I floundered. Middle school Spanish with Ms. Mordini brought about the genesis of Kroleg + Ben which continues to this day (see Oleg above). Over the past 20 years of knowing Patrick I’ve learned that he is the kind of friend where you can pick up the phone and organically be yourself. He’s full of energy, passion, and philosophical advice while never failing to make me laugh.

Ben Wildman

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Abby & Patrick

Abby & Patrick

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