Rehearsal Dinner

Ruffled Feathers Golf Club

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Bridal Shower

Summer

Our Wedding

Abby and Tim met in 2018 during their freshman year at Illinois State University. Abby was hanging out in a friend’s dorm at Tri-Towers when she first noticed a guy with the bluest eyes she had ever seen—Tim. She was instantly drawn to him but too nervous to make a move. Fortunately, a mutual friend let Tim know about her crush, and just a few days later, they met again at one of Tim’s SAE fraternity parties. That night, Tim asked for Abby’s Snapchat—and from that moment on, their story began.From the start, they made strong first impressions. Abby thought Tim was goofy, the life of the party, and incredibly handsome. Tim thought Abby was laid-back, always up for whatever was happening, and one of the easiest people to talk to.Their first date was at McAlister’s Deli in ISU’s Bone Student Center, where Tim generously paid for Abby’s meal using his Redbird flex dollars. Abby was smitten by Tim’s kindness and sweet heart. The two were inseparable all throughout undergrad—just ask any of their friends. They made it through four years together, graduating in 2022: Tim with a degree in Business Marketing, and Abby with a degree in Communication Sciences and Disorders.After graduation, their world shifted as Abby began graduate school, and they faced long distance. It was hard not seeing each other every day, but they knew their love could handle it. And they were right. Today, they share an apartment they love with their pup, Charlie. Their favorite evenings include relaxing on the couch, sipping a drink, working on a puzzle, and snuggling up with Charlie.Over the years, they’ve made countless memories—from college parties to quiet nights in. One of their favorite adventures was their first big vacation to Mexico. They’re die-hard Chicago Cubs fans who love going to Wrigley Field, enjoying a cold one, and belting out “Go Cubs Go.” They also share a love for the outdoors and often head up to Tim’s family cottage to boat, unwind, and spend time with loved ones. Family has always been a core value for both of them, and they couldn’t be more excited to bring their two amazing families together.During their third annual trip to New Buffalo, Michigan, Tim popped the question. They had spent the day at the beach, exploring shops, and enjoying their favorite food and drinks. After dinner—and a couple drinks—Tim brought Abby down to the beach and got down on one knee. The next day, he surprised her by gathering all of their closest family members to celebrate in their favorite vacation spot.Abby loves that Tim is her steady source of calm—someone who makes her feel safe, supported, and deeply loved. She admires his goofiness, his easygoing spirit, and the way he cares so deeply for everyone in his life. Tim loves Abby’s warm, joyful presence and the way she brings comfort and happiness to any space she enters. He admires her strength, her loyalty, and her ability to love with her whole heart.They cannot wait to celebrate their wedding day with the people who mean the most and begin the next chapter—together.

Our Story

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Jordyn Bauer 

Molly Whitcomb 

Bridget Gill 

Abby Kokalj 

Joanna Gray 

Genna Przybylo

Megan Akers 

Grace Surin

Zachary Surin 

Jonathon Savage

Grant Bauer 

David Gleaves

Austin Hoffman 

Pat Surane

Jacob Liaromatis

Jake Coffinbargar 

Ben Fisher 

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Abigayle & Timothy

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