Abosede & John

December 15, 2024 • Auburn, AL

Abosede & John

December 15, 2024 • Auburn, AL

Our Story

Abosede

It all started on August 17th, 2023, with a message that disappeared as quickly as it came. He sent a cryptic message, then deleted it, leaving me curious and, let's be honest, a little nosy. Innocently, I asked him what he had deleted, and instead of an answer, he told me not to worry. That was the beginning of what would become an adventure I never saw coming.


We introduced ourselves, and he kept checking in on me like a diligent guardian angel. He even schemed with my friend who lived in the same building to invite me over to her room—turns out, he was just looking for reasons to bump into me! And then came the moment I couldn’t forget: October 1st, a quiet Sunday. I stumbled upon a picture of him in traditional attire, looking... so fine. Let’s just say I stared at that photo a healthy number of times.


From that moment on, we got closer. I became his unofficial life manager—helping him shop, managing his finances, praying for him, and sharing endless gists. At one point, I even jokingly asked if I could be his personal assistant because I was practically running his life anyway. He agreed, and I started earning a whooping $15 per month for my services…lol!!!


He would randomly buy me things every now and then, and life was good... until it wasn’t.


One day, he suddenly began to pull away. In his defense, he had asked me out three times already, and each time, I had politely turned him down. Now, how could I explain that it wasn’t a rejection, I just wasn’t ready back then? But he was done, he said, and that he wasn’t interested anymore. I cried to everyone with ears, sharing my sob story far and wide.


And just when I thought my story would end there, a miracle happened! They say even the Lord turned again the captivity of Zion, and so he did for me. You can call me Zion! Just as I had finally convinced myself to move on, he showed up at my apartment—right on the night I had decided to let go—and asked me out again.


This time, I didn't hesitate. I said "yes" faster than he could blink because I knew what I had been through. And just like that, a story that started with a deleted message turned into a love story worth telling... and retelling.

John

A day after I got into the US, Ayuba drove me and Habeeb to see Zainab. We got to the apartment she was staying at the time and I saw Abosede running from the living room, to wherever it was she was running to, and I told Habeeb jokingly that “this babe fine o” (this lady is beautiful). Fast-forward to that evening, we met at an event, but I did not speak with her and was basically observing this beautiful young lady. Here’s the first picture of her I took, good luck finding her. I came to Auburn for my PhD, but I was already distracted on the very first day 🫣🫣

PS: Sorry if you see yourself in this picture🤣🤣🤣

August 04, 2023

A day after I got into the US, Ayuba drove me and Habeeb to see Zainab. We got to the apartment she was staying at the time and I saw Abosede running from the living room, to wherever it was she was running to, and I told Habeeb jokingly that “this babe fine o” (this lady is beautiful). Fast-forward to that evening, we met at an event, but I did not speak with her and was basically observing this beautiful young lady. Here’s the first picture of her I took, good luck finding her. I came to Auburn for my PhD, but I was already distracted on the very first day 🫣🫣 PS: Sorry if you see yourself in this picture🤣🤣🤣
I promise you, I wasn't stalking. I was just admiring her at an ASA event and I remember telling Habeeb and Tola that "omo yi, mo ma fe" (this girl, I will date her).
Back to my story: 
My first opportunity to talk with her was when some of her stuff from the grad school welcome event got mixed up with CJ’s, and the boys asked me to go with CJ to meet her for the exchange, of course I passed 🤣… Instead, I devised a rather innovative way to slide into her DM on whatsapp, Zainab found a way to introduce us and the rest is history.

September 09, 2023

I promise you, I wasn't stalking. I was just admiring her at an ASA event and I remember telling Habeeb and Tola that "omo yi, mo ma fe" (this girl, I will date her). Back to my story: My first opportunity to talk with her was when some of her stuff from the grad school welcome event got mixed up with CJ’s, and the boys asked me to go with CJ to meet her for the exchange, of course I passed 🤣… Instead, I devised a rather innovative way to slide into her DM on whatsapp, Zainab found a way to introduce us and the rest is history.
Our first picture together

September 09, 2023

Our first picture together
Let's just say I make her happy a lot... and she makes me happy too.

June 02, 2024

Let's just say I make her happy a lot... and she makes me happy too.
Popped the question, and... She said yes!!!

September 14, 2024

Popped the question, and... She said yes!!!