Guests:

Semi-formal attire

No light purple

No light grey

No white, cream, off white

No phones during ceremony (we have a photographer)

During the reception & the dance that is fine!

Silence your cell phones please!

No assigned seating (except for close family) so pick wherever you want!

Please arrive on time (30 minutes early).

Only select people get plus ones.

We will NOT tolerate any drama, we ask for a completely drama free environment!

Please RSVP by May 1st, 2026 to either Lilly or Aiden.

Be respectful:

There will be alcohol so please know your limit and be safe — we want you there and we want you safe!

Please make good decisions.

We are asking people to contribute to a honeymoon fund rather than receiving wedding gifts.

No announcements at the wedding

These include but not limited to: proposals or baby announcements

Please wait to post videos and photos until the bride and groom have done so first.

Please do not bring uninvited children or non-approved guests.

No contacting the bride or groom unless it is an absolute emergency — text the maid of honor or best man.

Please stay until the end of the wedding because we would love for all of our friends and family to send us off.

Communicate food restrictions as soon as possible, preferably when RSVP-ing.

No dogs other than the bride and groom’s.

Please stay out of the photographer’s way and do not ask our photographer for personal photos of you/family/friends.

Last but not least, have fun and enjoy yourself.

Wedding Party:

Groomsmen + Best Man:

Communicate with each other!!!

Groomsmen follow the lead of the best man & the groom — what they say goes!

Try not to stain or rip the suits.

Don’t pressure the groom into bad decisions that can lead to injury, trauma, or a pissed off bride.

Lastly have fun, live in the moment, and bond.

Bridesmaids & Maid of Honor:

No drama!!!

Follow the bride and maid of honor’s lead

Be supportive and open minded

Don’t pressure the groom into bad decisions that can lead to injury, trauma, or a pissed off groom.

Have fun, bond, and create memories that will last a lifetime.

A&L