Ailee and I first met in the fall of 2022. Our paths crossed when my co-workers and I guest taught at Fellowship Fayetteville’s college service. Prior to speaking, we had a meeting with the college ministry team, and both Ailee and I noticed something special. A few days later, I gathered the courage to ask her out, and to my delight, she accepted.

We went on two memorable dates in December, during which it became clear that I would be traveling extensively for the next two years with The Traveling Team, while Ailee would remain on staff at Fellowship Fayetteville and continue her studies at Dallas Theological Seminary. Fearing the challenges of a long-distance relationship and mindful of our early stage, I regretfully decided to halt our dates (yes, I know, not my finest moment).

Over the following year, Ailee and I both had experiences that helped us appreciate what we had together. By God’s grace, in early November 2023, as I prepared to return home for the semester, I learned Ailee was unexpectedly single. I first messaged her on Instagram, and a week later, nervously called to ask for another chance at a date. Despite my doubts, Ailee graciously agreed.

Our (second) first date at Sassafras Vineyard, tasting wine, proved to be a turning point. Soon after, we became exclusive, realizing our hearts were set on each other. It didn’t take long for us to see that our relationship was headed in a promising direction.

Then, on December 22nd, I was struck with appendicitis. Ailee showed incredible support, meeting my parents for the first time with calmness and grace. That night, I was certain she possessed all the qualities of a wonderful wife. Though I know I fall short, I was eager to spend my life striving to be the man she deserved.

Coincidentally—or I’d argue providentially—Ailee wrote in her journal the next day, “I think I’m going to marry this boy.”

From that point on, our time together affirmed God’s hand in bringing us closer. Even during our recent semester apart, the distance only strengthened our commitment. We are grateful for the support of our families and friends, and eagerly anticipate merging our lives together.

We are deeply thankful to have you witness the covenant of marriage we make before God, His church, and our loved ones. See y'all November 24th!