Picture this: Merrissa and I, two individuals from opposite sides of America living life in a whirlwind of conflicting schedules. If my life were a romantic comedy, we might have crossed paths in a bar, shared a drink, and ended up as great friends, never realizing the potential for something more. But fate had other plans for us.

The pandemic, the ultimate plot twist of 2019, brought us two together on Merrissa's back porch with glasses of wine and a shared realization: laughter was our common language, and growth was on the menu.

Reflecting on our unconventional journey through the twists and turns of life and love, I couldn't have scripted this, even in my wildest dreams. It's been one heck of a roller-coaster ride, with each turn promising a 'hold my wine or in my case, tequila”, watch this' moment!"

Our relationship isn't just about cuddles and cozy nights; it's quite the opposite; it's a masterclass in mutual improvement. I joke often, "Merrissa took my 'organized chaos' and taught me the magic of color-coding. I've never seen my calendar look so alive if you don’t believe me. I currently have a 2 foot by 4 foot whiteboard calendar hanging in my kitchen.

Our story isn't a fairy tale; but merely our perfectly..imperfect love journey. We continue to work hard to turn each other's weaknesses into strengths, laughing through the learning curves and celebrating the triumphs along the way.

Merrissa keeps me on my toes, a perpetual source of unpredictability. I'm never quite sure what witty remark she'll unleash for our next "adventure" or when she'll call me up with that saying, "Guess what Baby." Whether it's planning a weekend adventure or sharing the latest piece of exciting news, each moment with Merrissa is an invitation to embrace the unexpected twists that life throws our way. Her spontaneity is the secret ingredient that keeps our journey lively, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

In our unconventional tale, Merrissa and I are the catalysts for each other's growth, turning life's stumbling blocks into stepping stones. We have created a partnership that's not just about love but about becoming better versions of ourselves.

Our journey is a testament to the fact that amidst life's chaos, finding someone who challenges you to grow, laugh at mishaps, and savor every wild moment is the real happily-ever-after.

Registry