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Alex & Ben

August 23, 2025 • Sands Point, NY

Alex & Ben

August 23, 2025 • Sands Point, NY
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August 23, 2025
Sands Point
NY

Wedding Day

August 23, 2025
4:00 PM–10:00 PM
Sands Point Preserve
121 Middleneck Rd, Sands Point, NY, 11050
Attire: Formal
We are getting married at The Hempstead House on Sands Point Preserve! FORMAL ATTIRE - please wear a suit and tie or a midi to floor length gown. We are so excited to celebrate with you in style. Wear whatever colour you wish! The only rule is you cannot wear white. FOR THOSE TRAVELING FROM ABROAD - please wear your wedding hats if you wish to! We are taking great care to blend both culture’s wedding traditions. FOR EVERYONE- We will be using a video booth in addition to our guest book, so we are prepping you now! Please do make sure to record something so we can look back and be able to laugh (and cry) with you! Have a little something prepared before you get there so when the party gets raucous you know what you were going to say. And please, feel free to give us a timeline throughout the night as you party harder and harder! We are so happy to share this day with you.

4:00 PM–4:30 PM

Ceremony

Sands Point Preserve
127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point, NY, 11050

4:30 PM–5:30 PM

Cocktail Hour

5:30 PM–10:00 PM

Reception

First Dance First Course Speeches Mother / Son Dance Father / Daughter Dance Band Dance Set Dinner Cake Cutting Dancing Cake, Coffee, and Tea Bouquet Toss - Not for those who are single, but for those who think they can beat the Maid of Honor Charlie to the bouquet... Dessert Parade Party