Yes, please RSVP by Friday, October 17, 2025 for everyone in your party via the website so we can give an accurate headcount to the reception venue.

The dress code is Black Tie Optional. This means formal attire is encouraged but not required. Men can wear a tuxedo or a dark suit with a tie, while women can opt for a formal gown, cocktail dress, or elegant dressy separates. Still unsure? Use this link for help: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-formal-black-tie-optional-black-tie-invited

In order to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus one they will appear when you RSVP.

While we love your little ones, this is strictly an adults-only occasion with an exception to those children participating in the wedding.

Please arrive at 20 minutes prior to the ceremony start time to find parking and your seat. The ceremony will begin at 6:30pm sharp, so plan to arrive by 6:10pm.

Yes, there will be parking at both St. Thomas More Catholic Church and White Oak Estate and Gardens