Alexandra and Adam have known of each other since they were little kids as Alexandra’s dad coached Adam. They didn’t know each other personally but their families were friends. Adam knew her brother and would always make it a point to say hi to the family anytime he would see them. According to Adam, Alexandra has had a crush on him, since she was four years old. Alexandra strongly disagrees with this opinion.
2015
Fast forward to Alexandra’s senior year, and Adams 2nd year at Mission College. Alexandra had posted a picture of a beach on Instagram, and accidently Adam had liked the picture. After a Mission College practice, Adam got a comment on one of his pictures. Unknowingly, Adam looked back at the post and wondered what this was about. After seeing the comment, Adam asked for Alexandra’s Socials and eventually her phone number. Alexandra and Adam continued to talk and began dating in December of this year. Both their schedules were always busy, but they would make time to go support each other during games and would constantly be on Facetime communicating during each other’s downtime.
2016
Before they knew it, time flew by and it ended up being prom season for Alexandra. Adam had a scheduled doubleheader on the day of her prom. Unsure of what would happen, fate took its course. Randomly, A huge storm came in and ended up flooding the field and canceling the double header. This was a rare event, as rain in Santa Clara would hardly cancel any sporting event. Adam ended up making it to dinner at Maggiano’s and prom with Alexandra that night. This was the first of many great memories to come. This was their first real sign that we were meant to be together.
Summer 2016 - 2018
Alexandra and Adams relationship would be tested, as they were long-distance for 2 years, while Adam left to play baseball at Point Loma. Both of their schedules were busy, as Alexandra was playing soccer at West Valley, and San Jose State University. Adam would come back home and enjoy the time together in the summer, while both would balance their commitment to each other and their sport. This was a true test, as they relied on communication, sacrifice, and the long term commitment of wanting to be together for the rest of their lives.
2018 - 2020
Alexandra and Adam were still going strong. Adam had finished his degree and Alexandra was in her final two years playing soccer at Notre Dame de Namur. With her commute, they ensured to continue to communicate throughout the week and enjoy each other’s presence at dinner and any chance they were together. During this time, they continued to support each other through school and work By 2020, Alexandra and Adam have obtained their Bachelor’s degree and continued to support and uplift each other with life and career choices.
2020 - 2022
COVID -19 outbreak. Things were starting to get cleared, state-wide with COVID-19, and Alexandra and Adam started to slowly see each other again. Having dates outside and distanced, but enjoying each others time and presence. Facetime and communicating throughout the time apart. During this time, Adam and Alexandra decided their future career paths and helped each other complete their Master’s Degree programs. This is where they continued to sacrifice, commit, and have faith that things would work out for each other.
2023
This year has been crazy for both of them. They had a bunch of weddings to experience and traveled together for the first time out of state. They both have improved and secured jobs in Santa Clara, where they hope to stay for the long hall. Additionally, Winning the Sliders First slow pitch championship, while enjoying bowling and eating out with friends and BBQ with their families.
Present
Their belief and faith in God and each other, allowed them to navigate through the challenging times of being apart. Their constant communication has allowed them to enjoy each others presence, sacrifice, and love everyday. Alexandra and Adam enjoy a simple life, prioritizing each other’s time, while pursuing new adventures together and supporting their families. They are rooted in God and family, and are excited to make new memories this year with all of their friends and Family. They appreciate all the love and support that they continuously receive, and are very thankful for everyone who has supported them.
Word of the Lord:
1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
MATTHEW 19:4-6: At the beginning the Creator made them male and female, and said For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.
ROMANS 12:10: Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
EPHESIANS 4:2-3: Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.