Dress to impress! Our wedding is formal or black tie optional, which means women should wear a tea length or full length dress and men should wear a formal suit or tuxedo.

Yes! The wedding party will be wearing black but it is also black tie optional! If black is what you want to wear, please do!

We are officially at “fire marshal” levels of crowded! We love you, but we physically cannot fit any extra souls in the building without someone sitting on the wedding cake. Unless your plus-one is an invisible ghost or a very small hamster, please stick to the names on the invite.

While we would love to host a welcome party for all our guests, we will only be having an intimate rehearsal dinner for immediate family and wedding party only.

Please arrive 30 minutes prior to the ceremony’s start time to find parking and find your seat. Once the ceremony begins, entrance will not be granted until after the ceremony completes.

If we do not receive your RSVP by May 25th you will be marked as “not attending”. We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative to provide our vendors with final head counts within the time they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

Yes! The drinks are on us but the hangover is on you.

Yes! You will be able to park in the Hilton parking garage right across the street from the venue. When leaving - the concierge at the front desk will validate your ticket so you don't have to pay!

We love the kids and we cherish the elders, but at 8:00PM the “wedding” officially ends and CLUB GOCA begins. THE VIBE SHIFT: “sweet Caroline” ➡️ “strictly unrated” PLEASE FIND THE NEAREST EXIT IF: -You are under the age of 18 -You are easily offended by rated R music or uncensored lyrics -You are not prepared to see your relatives making questionable life choices on the dance floor that cannot be unseen. 🛑THE DISCLAIMER We are not responsible for what your eyes will see or the permanent retinal damage caused by witnessing your family members lose their dignity. If you wish to keep your wholesome memories of this family intact, this is your cue to leave. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK. THE INNOCENCE ENDS AT 8:00PM

If you have dietary restrictions please reach out to Tom or Tony at The State Room at 518-432-7773 or the stateroom@yahoo.com. They will accommodate any kind of dietary restriction.