Alyssa & Jacob

September 25, 2025 • Cary, NC, USA
153 Days To Go!

Alyssa & Jacob

September 25, 2025 • Cary, NC, USA
153 Days To Go!

Q + A

Is There A Dress Code?

Our wedding dress code is Black Tie, so we’re encouraging men to wear a suit, and women to go for elegant floral gowns or sophisticated cocktail dresses. We want everyone to look absolutely fabulous and have fun, but we do have a few color requests to keep things picture-perfect! Please avoid wearing white, Agave green, Carolina blue, and Lemon yellow. We want to make sure the bride and bridal party stand out in those beautiful hues!

Do female guests need to wear anything special for the ceremony?

Yes, female guests are kindly requested to bring a cute shawl or cover-up to wear during the Catholic ceremony. This is to ensure respect for the sacredness of the church and to maintain modesty during the service. Once the ceremony is over, you are free to remove your shawl or cover-up for the cocktail hour and reception. Feel free to enjoy the rest of the celebration in your beautiful dress.

Can I Bring A Date?

As we have a strict guest list to stay within our venue's capacity, we can only accommodate those listed on your specific invitation. Thank you for your understanding!

Can We Bring Our Children?

While we would love to see your kiddos, we decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adult-only event. We hope you understand & can enjoy a fun night!

What Happens If I Don't RSVP In Time?

If we do not get an RSVP back by the date which we have provided, no need to worry! We will continue to accept RSVPs until June 1st.

When Do I RSVP By?

Please RSVP by May 1st.

What If I Can't Make It?

Your presence will surely be missed. Please RSVP "decline." If you have RSVP'd "attending," but find that you can no longer make it, please notify Alyssa at (919)664-3988 or Jacob at (336)909-0458.