For our welcome dinner, we’d love everyone to lean into a white-night, coastal-chic vibe. Please wear shades of white, cream, or soft neutrals in outfits that feel elevated yet relaxed—think flowy dresses, airy fabrics, and resort-style silhouettes for women, and crisp white shirts with linen pants or tailored shorts for men. For shoes, think block heels, wedges, or elegant flat sandals for women, and loafers, dress shoes, clean sneakers, or sandals for men.

Please avoid baseball caps, graphic T-shirts, dark or heavy shoes, flip-flops, or anything overly casual or bulky that distracts from the clean, elevated, coastal vibe.

For our wedding ceremony, the dress code is resort casual. Think soft, breezy, coastal-romantic vibe with light pastel tones and flowy, beach-friendly silhouettes. Colors like lavender, sage, pink blush, soft yellow, sky blue, and peach are perfect—anything airy, dreamy, and sun-kissed. Midi or maxi dresses that move beautifully in the ocean breeze (chiffon, tiers, gentle prints, or light lace) fit the look perfectly. The overall feel should be elegant, whimsical, and beachy, with colors and fabrics that look stunning in natural light. For shoes, think neutral or soft-toned sandals, wedges, or dressy flats.

For gentlemen: Think linen or lightweight cotton in soft pastels or soft neutrals. A relaxed button-up paired with khaki or linen pants is perfect—sleeves can be rolled for that effortless beach feel. Shoes should stay light and clean: tan loafers or woven slip-ons that work well on sand or boardwalk paths.

Things to avoid: whites or any color that may be interpreted as whites for women, dark or heavy colors, stiff or thick fabrics, denim, T-shirts, baseball caps, face coverings, flip-flops, or anything too bold or flashy that takes away from the soft, coastal palette.