Alyssa & Benjamin

Saturday, May 25, 2024 • Toone, TN

Alyssa & Benjamin

Saturday, May 25, 2024 • Toone, TN

Our Story

Alyssa's Version

I met Ben the first day of welcome week at Union. I thought that he was cute & funny but was determined not to get into a relationship so early into college. However, we quickly became part of the same friend group & began to spend every day together. Slowly, these group hang outs turned into one-on-one nighttime walks around campus, study sessions in the circle of life, and car rides around Jackson. Two months after meeting him, I invited him to a date party. When said date party got rained out, Ben was quick to propose a counter-offer: a date! That one date quickly turned into a series of dates, and now, here we are 3 years later, planning our wedding. I never had to go through a day of college without knowing Benjamin & now I never have to go a day of my life without spending it with him!!!! He is hard-working, loyal, funny, selfless, kind, generous, creative, gracious, and a million other good things. Benjamin is truly my best friend - his patient, constant love for me reflects Christ so clearly. There is never a moment when I’m not thanking God for His faithfulness in bringing him to me; he is, without a doubt, one of the greatest testaments of the Lord’s goodness in my life.

Ben's Version

The first time I ever met Alyssa was during welcome week. It was during Covid, so we all had masks on, but I still remember always noticing how beautiful her eyes were! We got to know each other more throughout that week. After welcome week was over, I wanted to continue to talk with Alyssa and get to know her better. I ended up injuring my leg during practice one night and was able to use that injury to convince her to go on walks with me to “help my leg get better.” On those walks I was able to get to know Alyssa far better and to get a glimpse of the godly woman she was. She is loyal, hardworking, and determined. She brings so much love and laughter in, not just my life, but the lives of all those around her. I have been blessed enough to be able to spend over three years with Alyssa, and I am proud to now call her my fiancé! After our first date, I knew that God had something very special in plan for us, and I am excited to grow in, not just our relationship with each other, but also our relationship with Christ. I love you, Alyssa Jasper - I cannot wait to call you my wife!

Welcome week! Where it all started!

August 14, 2020

Welcome week! Where it all started!
Our first date!

September 24, 2020

Our first date!
The date party that got rained out

October 20, 2020

The date party that got rained out
Studying together :)

November 08, 2020

Studying together :)
Our first formal!

November 19, 2020

Our first formal!
Ben spent spring break in IL with Alyssa and her family

March 29, 2021

Ben spent spring break in IL with Alyssa and her family
Another formal!

May 06, 2021

Another formal!
Ben surprised Alyssa and visited her after surgery

May 22, 2021

Ben surprised Alyssa and visited her after surgery
The first wedding we attended together!

July 04, 2021

The first wedding we attended together!
Los Portales

September 05, 2021

Los Portales
Our first anniversary!

September 24, 2021

Our first anniversary!
First family trip with the Jaspers - Disney

June 26, 2022

First family trip with the Jaspers - Disney
First family trip with the Van Nestes - Charleston

June 26, 2022

First family trip with the Van Nestes - Charleston
Our two-year anniversary!

September 24, 2022

Our two-year anniversary!
He asked!

April 21, 2023

He asked!
She said yes!

April 21, 2023

She said yes!
First formal as FIANCES!

April 29, 2023

First formal as FIANCES!
The day we found our venue :)

May 21, 2023

The day we found our venue :)