The Barn at Big Oak Hill Ranch

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Fall

Our Wedding

Our love story began in 2018 and our lives haven't been the same since! I, Alyssa, was visiting with my sister and her now husband, Josh, at their house. Josh decided to invite a few friends over to hang out. One of those friends just happened to be Dalton. I knew of him because of living in the small town of Camden, but I had never been around him before. I remember thinking that he looked cute in his long sleeve white t-shirt and hat, but nothing more than that. We actually didn't speak to each other that night from what I can remember. Still though, a friend of Dalton's told him that he should try to pursue me. Unexpectedly, I got a message from Dalton the next morning and we talked to each other from that day on! I played hard to get for the longest time. I had never been in a serious relationship before and didn't know if I was ready for it. After about five months of talking, I realized that he was the one for me. I found myself almost telling him I loved him and we weren't even officially together at that point! We began dating on August 4th , 2018 and I have loved every minute of it! We got engaged on June 23rd at Johnson's Beach in Perdido Key, FL! My sister and I had planned a family photo shoot while on vacation with a local photographer as a gift to my mom. Little did I know, Dalton was talking to the photographer more than I was. When we arrived at Johnson's Beach, everyone was acting normal and the shoot was going great. I had a small inkling that I could be getting engaged, but I really didn't think it was going to happen. When we made our way to the shore at sunset for more pictures, I turned away from Dalton and as I turned back around, he was on a knee! A flood of emotions ran over me, and I am pretty sure I blacked out for a second. It was the easiest yes ever, and I would relive that moment over and over if I was given the chance! Dalton is kind, goofy, hard-working, and so loving. He is a man of God, and I know our relationship will continue to be built around our faith in Jesus. &lt;3 It is so crazy to think that we are old enough to be getting married pretty soon, but I am so excited for our big day. At times, I still feel like the young girl who was frantically getting dressed for her first date with a boy in a maroon pick up truck. Before I know it, I will be putting on a white dress to walk down the aisle to that same boy, who is now my future husband. We cannot wait to celebrate our day with those we love most! Here's to becoming a Pate forever!

Our Story

Photos

Our girl, our girl! India is the kindest, most beautiful soul you will ever meet! She is a constant reminder to not take life too seriously. She flies by the seat of her pants and is late to everything, but we love her for it! Forever grateful that she gets to stand by my side on this day we've been dreaming about for years!

India Garcia 

Semp!! The life of every party!! Dalton and Jordan are lifelong friends and have gotten into so much trouble together! We can always count on Semp to have a good time and make everyone laugh! I can assure everyone in attendance that they will be entertained by his dance moves on the big day!

Jordan Semple

Our sweet Kay Kay! She is smart, strong-willed, beautiful, and one of the most caring people I know.  She is the best momma, sister, nurse, and friend. I truly don't know where I would be in life without her! 

KayLee Hogue

Josh is a good friend to Dalton and my brother-in-law! He loves to hunt and fish more than anyone we know! He cracks the most jokes and can make just about anyone laugh! 

Josh Hogue

The little sister that gives everyone a run for their money! Madi can charm you with her beautiful smile and shock you with her crazy personality! She is truly one of kind and will always keep us on our toes!

Madi Mantooth

Kendall and Dalton met in kindergarten and have been friends ever since! Kendall enjoys spending time outdoors and training his sweet lab, Merle! He is a great friend and we are thankful he is a part of our big day!

Kendall McAllister

Skylar is all things beauty, fashion, & fun!! She is the most fearless person we know, and is great at anything she pursues. We have loved watching her chase her dreams! If you need an outfit for the wedding, be sure to shop The XOXO Co. She will fix you up!

Skylar Paxton

Logan and Dalton have gone through all phases of life together! They met at the Learning Tree, went to Camden Fairview together, and even roomed in college together! Logan is an avid guitar player and loves to play golf! 

Logan Reed

This girl will make friends with anyone she meets! She is outgoing, bubbly, and beautiful. She is the one I can relate to on just about anything, and I am so grateful for our friendship! 

Grace Vint

Matt and Dalton met through mutual friends and have been buddies ever since! They are either hunting or playing golf whenever they are together! Matt is a pilot and loves to fly  during his free time!

Matt Pender

My first friend from college! Savannah is extremely smart, witty, and honest. She is not afraid to put me in my place, but shows compassion when it's needed. My time at SAU would not have been the same without her!

Savannah Knotts

Kurt and Dalton grew up going to church together, playing baseball, and hunting! Kurt is a very good friend to both of us and would give the shirt off his back to anyone! 

Kurt Collins

Our sweet sister/sister-in-law! Laney can brighten up a room as soon as she walks in the door! She is crazy and loud, but that is what makes her SO fun! We love her to no end!

Laney Pate

Jacob is a good friend of Dalton's, and like his brother Josh, likes to have a good time no matter where he is! He enjoys spending time with family & friends and golfing on the regular!

Jacob Hogue

Morgan is my little step-sister! She is most definitely one of the most genuine people I've ever met! She is very athletic, loves to eat bread, and enjoys reading during her free time!

Morgan Ogden

Gannon and I met in pre-school and have been friends ever since! He is also a good friend of Dalton! He is an avid outdoorsman, loves sports, and pesters anyone he really cares about!

Gannon Bearden

Oh the stories I could tell about Ryan! He is one of the goofiest people I've ever met! He has always been a true friend to me and I'm grateful for our friendship! If you are ever looking for Ryan, he is most likely on a tractor or in a boat! 

Ryan Sorrells

Wesley is my little step-brother! He has the kindest heart! He enjoys hunting, playing sports, and spending time with friends & family!

Wesley Ogden

Juddy Buddy! This little one brings so much joy into all of our lives! He loves his tractors, his orange juice, and his Sissa & Uncle D! We are so excited he is a part of our big day!

Judson River Hogue 

Penelope is the daughter of one of our groomsmen, Jacob Hogue! She is a fierce little girl who loves to dance anytime a song comes on! We can't wait to see her break it down on such a fun day!

Penelope Hogue

Our sweet Makky Boy!! He is the craziest, smartest, most loving dog there is! Everyone keep your fingers crossed he doesn't jump in the pond on the big day!

Our pretty Kay Kay Girl! She loves to lick and get all the rubbins she can possibly take from you! Just look at those puppy eyes!

Alyssa & Dalton

Alyssa & Dalton

Photos