General dress code is black tie. Ladies are encouraged to dress in Valentine's Day colors - shades of red, pink, and purple. Cowboy boots are encouraged, but please no jeans (make them black jeans, if you absolutely must).

While we love your little ones, this is an adults-only affair. If you need help with childcare, Alysse and Stephen are happy to provide recommendations and help coordinate.

Bakersfield Country Club is about a 15 minute drive from The Padre Hotel, and a 20 minute drive from The Marriott. Uber and Lyft are reliable in Bakersfield, we highly recommend ride sharing as they should be available throughout the night. Your vehicles will not be towed if they are left overnight, but the club gates will be locked until they open in the morning.

The ceremony and reception will both be held at Bakersfield Country Club.