Amber & Hendrik

July 20, 2024 • Santa Rosa, CA

Amber & Hendrik

July 20, 2024 • Santa Rosa, CA

Every story has a beginning

A Love Without End

Hendrik's

Sophomore year of high school was coming to an end and summer of 2014 was right around the corner. One sunny day at lunch break, I caught a glimpse of a beautiful girl hanging out with my good friend Johanna. I started texting Amber that same night. We connected on the fact that we were both old souls and had grown from struggles most teenagers never faced. That is where our journey as a couple began, in the endeavor for a greater connection than either one of us knew we could find.


While we courted in high school and enjoyed being young: we knew I was destined to go back to Belgium and we would have to be apart. But unlike most at this age, we decided that our bond and connection was worth the sacrifices both of us had to make to stay together. While it seemed like we’d be separated for an eternity at the start, it almost seems like a blur now. After 5 years of probably over 200 000 miles in flights back and forth, we had made it. Both of us had grown so much as individuals, living our lives separately while maintaining our love and admiration for one another. Beyond the 9 hour time difference, the videocalls, the loneliness, and due to the pandemic, the isolation, we always stayed tight with one another: in sync beyond distance, dreaming of the days where we would be back in each other's loving arms and create a beautiful life together.


3 years ago, we were rejoined and rejoiced, soaking up every minute of each other's company. Every day we fall more in love than ever and feel so lucky to live our whole lives together forevermore. A love that stretches over values, goals, pleasure, and purpose. I am beyond thrilled to be able to adore my love and have her by my side while we continue to venture through life’s challenges. I feel truly blessed to have already had nearly a decade to spend with the love of my life, my partner in all aspects and I cannot wait for the rest of them to create more memories together.


Now we will be united as one for the rest of our lives, a true love story that is always ongoing.



Amber's

Hendrik's 15th Birthday @ Hendrik Point, San Francisco, CA 

- First birthday celebrated together - 4 months of Dating

September 13, 2014

Hendrik's 15th Birthday @ Hendrik Point, San Francisco, CA - First birthday celebrated together - 4 months of Dating
Baking Together After High School @ Amber's Family Home

- 9 months of Dating

January 17, 2015

Baking Together After High School @ Amber's Family Home - 9 months of Dating
Junior Prom @ Fountain Grove Golf Course

- 1 year Together

May 22, 2015

Junior Prom @ Fountain Grove Golf Course - 1 year Together
First Family Camping Trip @ Utah's National Parks

- Toured for 2 weeks with Hendrik's Family and visited Bryce Canyon, Capitol Reef, Canyonlands, Arches, and Great Basin in Nevada - 1 year Together

August 04, 2015

First Family Camping Trip @ Utah's National Parks - Toured for 2 weeks with Hendrik's Family and visited Bryce Canyon, Capitol Reef, Canyonlands, Arches, and Great Basin in Nevada - 1 year Together
Senior Prom @ John Ash

- We skipped, but went to pre-prom dinner with our friends -  2 years Together

May 15, 2016

Senior Prom @ John Ash - We skipped, but went to pre-prom dinner with our friends - 2 years Together
Summer European Tour @ Bruges, Belgium - The first of many trips to Brugge we took - 2 years Together

August 02, 2016

Summer European Tour @ Bruges, Belgium - The first of many trips to Brugge we took - 2 years Together
Summer European Tour @ Frankfurt or Cologne, Germany - 2 years Together

September 05, 2016

Summer European Tour @ Frankfurt or Cologne, Germany - 2 years Together
Hendrik's Only Visit Over Christmas @ Sonoma Coast, CA - 2 years Together

December 29, 2016

Hendrik's Only Visit Over Christmas @ Sonoma Coast, CA - 2 years Together
First Solo Camping Trip over Summer Break @ Emerald Bay State Park, Lake Tahoe, California - We loved to take short trips while Hendrik was stateside during the university's breaks - 3 years Together

July 24, 2017

First Solo Camping Trip over Summer Break @ Emerald Bay State Park, Lake Tahoe, California - We loved to take short trips while Hendrik was stateside during the university's breaks - 3 years Together
Both Families Camping Trip @ Avenue of the Giants, Humboldt, CA - 3 years Together

July 30, 2017

Both Families Camping Trip @ Avenue of the Giants, Humboldt, CA - 3 years Together
Spring Break Visit @ Sonoma Coast, CA - These visits made those long times apart bearable - 4 years Together

April 01, 2018

Spring Break Visit @ Sonoma Coast, CA - These visits made those long times apart bearable - 4 years Together
21st Birthday Wine Tasting @ Moshin Winery & A. Rafanelli Winery, Sonoma County, CA - Hendrik was too young to drink, but he was a great sport anyway as our Designated Driver, with my parents & sister - 4 years Together

July 22, 2018

21st Birthday Wine Tasting @ Moshin Winery & A. Rafanelli Winery, Sonoma County, CA - Hendrik was too young to drink, but he was a great sport anyway as our Designated Driver, with my parents & sister - 4 years Together
Spring Break Visit @ Williams-Selyem Winery, Sonoma County, CA - 5 years Together

April 14, 2019

Spring Break Visit @ Williams-Selyem Winery, Sonoma County, CA - 5 years Together
Birthday Road Trip @ Big Sur, CA - 5 years Together

July 23, 2019

Birthday Road Trip @ Big Sur, CA - 5 years Together
Aerial Bay Tour @ Charles M. Schulz Airport, Sonoma County, CA - 4 person flight with Jan as the pilot alongside an instructor, viewing the entire bay over sunset. *where we took the save-the-season photo we sent when we got engaged* - 5 years Together

August 24, 2019

Aerial Bay Tour @ Charles M. Schulz Airport, Sonoma County, CA - 4 person flight with Jan as the pilot alongside an instructor, viewing the entire bay over sunset. *where we took the save-the-season photo we sent when we got engaged* - 5 years Together
Amber's Return to Belgium @ Ghent Belgium -  5 years together

October 21, 2019

Amber's Return to Belgium @ Ghent Belgium - 5 years together
Walking Tour @ Bruges, Belgium - 6 years Together

June 16, 2020

Walking Tour @ Bruges, Belgium - 6 years Together
Family Camping Trip @ Lake Lewiston, Trinity-Shasta National Forest, Northern CA - With Andrea, Jan, Mieke, PJ, Helen, Hendrik and I - 6 years Together

July 26, 2020

Family Camping Trip @ Lake Lewiston, Trinity-Shasta National Forest, Northern CA - With Andrea, Jan, Mieke, PJ, Helen, Hendrik and I - 6 years Together
Family Camping Trip @ Crater Lake National Park, Oregon - 6 years Together

July 28, 2020

Family Camping Trip @ Crater Lake National Park, Oregon - 6 years Together
Downtown Christmas Tree @ Gent, Belgium - Following a pizza picnic with friends inside an open-air Music Hall - 6 years Together

December 17, 2020

Downtown Christmas Tree @ Gent, Belgium - Following a pizza picnic with friends inside an open-air Music Hall - 6 years Together
Snow Day in Moemoe's Backyard (Hendrik's Paternal Grandmother) @ Merchtem, Belgium - 7 years Together

February 07, 2021

Snow Day in Moemoe's Backyard (Hendrik's Paternal Grandmother) @ Merchtem, Belgium - 7 years Together
Post-Lunch Stroll @ Petaluma, CA - A stolen moment for just us between all the health and brewery chaos - 7 years Together

August 01, 2021

Post-Lunch Stroll @ Petaluma, CA - A stolen moment for just us between all the health and brewery chaos - 7 years Together
Brewery Post-Construct, But Prior to Opening @ CUVER Belgian Brewers, Windsor, CA - 7 years Together

October 02, 2021

Brewery Post-Construct, But Prior to Opening @ CUVER Belgian Brewers, Windsor, CA - 7 years Together
Proposal @ Sonoma Coast, CA -

The surprise I've been waiting for: Hendrik got down on one knee and asked me to be his friend forever and his wife - 8 years Together

September 23, 2022

Proposal @ Sonoma Coast, CA - The surprise I've been waiting for: Hendrik got down on one knee and asked me to be his friend forever and his wife - 8 years Together
Brewery Tour & Hike @ Healdsburg, CA - 8 years Together

October 20, 2022

Brewery Tour & Hike @ Healdsburg, CA - 8 years Together
Day-Trip to the Snow @ Lake Tahoe, CA - 9 years Together

January 23, 2023

Day-Trip to the Snow @ Lake Tahoe, CA - 9 years Together
My Cousin Candace's Wedding to Mike @ Mt. Shasta Ski Park, Siskiyou County, CA - Hehe, you know you've had a long engagement when your cousin & your aunt get engaged & married before you do - 9 years Together

May 20, 2023

My Cousin Candace's Wedding to Mike @ Mt. Shasta Ski Park, Siskiyou County, CA - Hehe, you know you've had a long engagement when your cousin & your aunt get engaged & married before you do - 9 years Together
Hike After Cake Tasting @ Sonoma Coast, CA - 9 years Together

July 08, 2023

Hike After Cake Tasting @ Sonoma Coast, CA - 9 years Together
Wine Tasting with Hendrik's Visiting Family @ A. Rafanelli Winery's Caves, Sonoma County, CA - Family time is the best time, with Hendrik's Aunt, Uncle, & cousins: Katia, Hans, Flor, Martha, & family friend Martin - 9 years Together

September 15, 2023

Wine Tasting with Hendrik's Visiting Family @ A. Rafanelli Winery's Caves, Sonoma County, CA - Family time is the best time, with Hendrik's Aunt, Uncle, & cousins: Katia, Hans, Flor, Martha, & family friend Martin - 9 years Together
Kayaking & Car Camping @ Lake Lewiston, Trinity-Shasta County, Northern CA - 9 years Together

September 25, 2023

Kayaking & Car Camping @ Lake Lewiston, Trinity-Shasta County, Northern CA - 9 years Together
First Solo Snowboarding Trip @ Diamond Peak Ski Park, NV - 9 years Together

December 16, 2023

First Solo Snowboarding Trip @ Diamond Peak Ski Park, NV - 9 years Together
Hiking & Nature Viewing @ Trione-Annadel State Park, Santa Rosa, CA - 10 years Together

January 28, 2024

Hiking & Nature Viewing @ Trione-Annadel State Park, Santa Rosa, CA - 10 years Together
Snowboarding with my Cousins @ Mt. Shasta Ski Park, Siskiyou County, CA - 10 years Together

February 25, 2024

Snowboarding with my Cousins @ Mt. Shasta Ski Park, Siskiyou County, CA - 10 years Together
My Aunt Rossann's Wedding to Roy @ Redding, CA - Hehe, you know you've had a long engagement when your cousin & your aunt get engaged & married before you do, with the Bride & Groom - 10 years Together

April 27, 2024

My Aunt Rossann's Wedding to Roy @ Redding, CA - Hehe, you know you've had a long engagement when your cousin & your aunt get engaged & married before you do, with the Bride & Groom - 10 years Together
PJ's Graduation @ Long Beach, CA - We loved getting to celebrate Hendrik's brother for 2 days straight with Helen, his girlfriend - 10 years Together

May 22, 2024

PJ's Graduation @ Long Beach, CA - We loved getting to celebrate Hendrik's brother for 2 days straight with Helen, his girlfriend - 10 years Together

A flame that never fades

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