Amber & Jake

Saturday, August 16, 2025 • Akron, OH
113 Days To Go!

Amber & Jake

Saturday, August 16, 2025 • Akron, OH
113 Days To Go!

Our Story

We first met

It was one cold night, Friday January 5, 2018 to be specific. I spontaneously decided to get a drink by myself after work at the old Seasons Bar in Northfield. While waiting to order a drink I spotted the most handsome man I’d ever seen before. I knew the moment I saw him that he was special. Anywho, this girl was next to me ordering a drink and invited me to hangout with her and her friends, little did I know the handsome man was in her friend group. She introduced everyone and that’s when I got his name, Jake. We talked all night, danced and I had a splits contest with Jake’s best man, Mike McElligott. I then rushed out earlier than I wanted having to work a double the next morning. I kissed Jake goodnight and he got my number. Then our magical journey began 🤗

We officially became a couple

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From January to August we had many wine and candy dates. On August 18, 2018 we took our first trip together to Cincinnati to go to a G-eazy concert. We stayed up all night, walking around the city and then watching the sunrise over the river while we layed on a beach under a lighted bridge. The next morning we went to the aquarium and failed at our first escape room.

Lot’s of Firsts

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Jake took me to my first Cavs game and many other new places. He really got me out of my comfort zone and made me feel so alive.

First Plane Trip Together

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We went to Colorado for Jake’s 30th Birthday 4/20/19. We had the most amazing time. I told him “I love you” for the first time in the mountains under the stars.

Our 1 Year Anniversary

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On August 18, 2019 Jake’s boss took us to Cedar Point and the next day he paid for us to have dinner at a fancy French restaurant near Sandusky for our 1 year anniversary.

Dash

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Jake quickly fell in love with my kitties.
Dash became his snuggle buddy. Dash sleeps on top of him every night and wakes Jake up at least twice a night to go outside. He’s like a dog. He pounces on Jake’s chest or whines until Jake wakes up, meanwhile I’m sleeping like a rock 😅

Mama

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Mama was a gift from God. She just showed up when day and walked into the house and never left. She’s Jake’s little darling, he treats her better than most humans, including me.

Jasmine aka Fluff

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This is my little princess, she’s a mama’s girl but still craves dad’s attention. She loves Jake’s shoes, always lays on them and attacks them. She’s very sassy and always whines until she gets her way. She takes after her dad 😏

Miss Kitty

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She is our newest addition to the family, after not being welcomed in her previous homes we couldn’t let her go to a shelter. She had some issues when she first arrived but she adapted and is now the most lovable lap cat. We call her our little pudge muffin.

Landoll’s Mohican Castle

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Jake took me here for our anniversary and it was magical! We stayed in the Landoll suite that was at the very top of the castle with the best view. We went to dinner and walked around the trails. We stayed up all night under the beautiful stars. People were searching for ghosts in the graveyard next to us, it was so spooky.

Jake Asked Me to Mary Him 😍

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My dad owned property in Southern Ohio; a mountain top of woods overlooking the Ohio River. It was beautiful! Jake asked me if I wanted to go down to the property to say my goodbyes before my mom sold it. We went down Saturday 8/13/22 to shoot my gun, go hiking and have a fire. While sitting inside the cabin, Jake pours us champagne into 2 plastic cups and says let’s go to the rooftop and smoke. We went up to the rooftop and the sun was setting. Jake lit up, and handed me a long note. At the end of the note it said “Will You Marry Me?”. He then played a song he had made for me and got down on one knee and pulled out the ring. I was in tears, it was the most thoughtful thing anyone has ever done for me. He made it absolutely perfect!
The picture was taken after we got home bc we forgot to take a picture during all the excitement 😬

Jacob aka Our Officiant

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My little brother Jacob is such a good person. He’s so caring and helpful. He’s very thoughtful and appreciates everything.
Jake and I love to take him to do fun stuff. It’s a tradition for us to carve pumpkins and go to a haunted house every year for my birthday in October. In the picture we went to Maze Craze Corn Maze.
We also love planning him surprise birthday parties which his friends have made into a holiday every December. Also fun fact, Jake and my brother Jacob have the same first and middle name, Jacob Ryan.

We Bought a House 🤗

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Nate

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This is my other little brother. He was one of the smartest people I knew. He was extremely handy and always taught himself how to do anything. He loved playing video games and was one of the best. He enjoyed hanging out with friends and loved to party. One of my favorite memories with him was at Nelsons Ledges, we lit the trails with glow sticks, stayed up late walking around and having deep talks about life.
Nate went through a bad breakup and was feeling lost. He met his new girlfriend, Andrea and she had my beautiful niece, Dallas. Nate was so excited to be a dad. He started working really hard to better himself and his life to be a good dad. Then suddenly On August 6, 2023, we received a tragic call. Nate was in a fatal car accident. He was supposed to come see our new home that day as we just got the keys days before. Loosing him has been extremely difficult. But I know he’s at peace and watching over his little girl. I know he’s here is spirit.

Part of the Fam

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Grandpa (Okey), mom (Kim), mom’s boyfriend (Joe), Jacob and us.

The Hicks

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Jim, Kathy, Amber (soon to be), Jake and Justin