While we love your children, we have chosen to make our special day adults only. We thank you for your understanding.

Yes there is ample parking at the Ruth, however, please consider taking an Uber or Lyft if you plan to partake in the festivities.

Yes, we have 2 room blocks secured for our guests that offers a discounted rate for the weekend. Please see the travel section for more details on booking.

Guests are encouraged to wear semi- formal attire. Suits for men and for women floor length, midi-length, or cocktail dresses. No jeans please. We also ask you to stay away from white, cream, and ivory.

Unfortunately, guests who don't RSVP by the due date, will be marked as not attending. We have to give the venue a final count well in advance. If you love us, please get those RSVPs in on time.

Due to the intimacy of the venue, we are unable to extend invites to plus ones unless otherwise specified. We look forward to seeing you there!

When you RSVP, you will be asked to share any dietary restrictions or allergies. Please also feel free to reach out to Stephen or Andee with any other questions.

We ask you to arrive to the Ruth 15-20 minutes before the ceremony start time to avoid any delays.

We ask that you please turn off all cellphones and tablets during our unplugged ceremony. We want you to be fully present! Please feel free to take as many photos are you want during the reception!