RSVPS
Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?
The RSVP will be digital. You can RSVP online through the provided link or on our website once it's active. The invitations will include a link to RSVP.
What date should I RSVP by?
We kindly request that you RSVP by March 15th. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date, we will assume that you won't be joining us. Unfortunately, we won't be able to accept any late RSVPs as we need to notify our vendors in a timely manner. If you show up to the wedding without RSVPing, then we won't be able to accommodate your attendance. Thank you for your understanding.
Plus Ones and Children
Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
We kindly ask that you refrain from bringing additional guests as our venue has limited capacity and budget constraints. We hope you understand that uninvited guests will not be able to attend. Thank you for your cooperation!
Am I allowed to bring my children?
We adore your children, but due to space restrictions, we are unable to accommodate every guest. Therefore, only the young siblings of the bride and groom will be allowed at the wedding. This event is reserved for guests aged 16 and above. If your child/children are invited, their names will be listed on the invitations. This will primarily be an adult-only wedding :) Unfortunately, any children not specifically invited will not be able to attend. Any guest who arrives with an uninvited child will not be allowed to enter the venue.
Wedding Dress Code
What is the dress code for the wedding?
The dress code is formal attire or Sunday best. Please try to refrain from khakis shorts, tennis shoes, t-shirts, shorts, etc.
Are there any colors or styles you prefer me to wear?
We kindly ask for guests to refrain from wearing white since this will be what the bride and groom are wearing.
What is the weather like in your area?
Since we are getting married in May, it will be hot outside though luckily we are getting married indoors with AC so you should be good to follow our dress code.
Menu and Dietary Restrictions
What type of food will be served at your wedding?
We will have two proteins such as chicken and beef along with two sides, salads, desserts, etc.
Will there be a meal option for people with dietary restrictions?
Yes, we will make sure the food will accommodate anyone with dietary restrictions/allergies as best as we can. If you have any dietary needs, please list them in your RSVP.
Will there be an open bar?
Unfortunately we will not have an open bar, however, there will be wine present
Wedding Gifts and Registry
Could you give me a link to your wedding registry?
Yes a link will be provided on the RSVPs and there is a section on the website to access the registry as well.
Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?
If you would like to send us a gift, please feel free to send it to our address:
1100 W NC Highway 54 Byp, Unit 89E, Chapel Hill, NC 27516
Otherwise, you are more than welcome to bring them to the wedding or if you are invited to the bridal shower, you can bring them then as well.
Wedding Weekend Itinerary FAQs
What time should I arrive at your wedding?
The wedding ceremony will start precisely at 4. Guests can arrive between 3-3:45. Doors will close at 3:50. If guests arrive late after doors are closed, then we will open the doors after the ceremony for cocktail hour and reception
What time will the wedding reception end? Will there be an after-party?
The wedding reception will end at 10 pm. There is no after-party
Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?
Yes, there will be an hour between the wedding ceremony and reception in which guests will partake in cocktail hour
Will there be other events to attend on the wedding weekend?
No specific events will be occurring during this weekend however we are getting married on Mother's Day.
Other FAQs
Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
Though we understand you may want to have some photos for memories, we kindly would like it if guests can refrain from taking photos during the ceremony so it will not disrupt our photographer. Photos are permitted during the reception and cocktail hour
Can I post wedding photos on social media?
Even though you may be excited to post photos of the wedding, we would kindly ask if you could refrain from posting until after the bride/groom and/or the family/wedding party has posted.
What is your wedding hashtag?
#BellsRingforMurray
Where will wedding updates be posted?
Updates will generally be posted on our website. We will contact all invited guests for any emergent changes.
I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?
You can contact Aniya at (919) 592-2200, Tacara if you have her contact information, or Tasha Rowland (contact person) at (919) 614- 7012. You can also reach out to Aniya or Tacara on social media as well. Please try to ask your questions before the wedding and not the day of as we would not want to overwhelm the bride while getting ready for the big day. If you do have any day of questions, please contact Tasha Rowland.