We want to be surrounded by people who wholeheartedly love and support us and our right to be married on our wedding day. If you have any conflicting feelings or differing values when you think about not just us, but anyone in the LGBTQIA+ community's political rights to be and love whomever they want, please consider doing some hard internal work before our big day or congratulate us from afar. No need to explain or let us know if you cannot attend due to those reasons.