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Our Wedding

Our story begins in 2019 at Oak & Rye, where we first met while working together. Ashkan had already been part of the Oak & Rye team for a few years when Fernanda started in 2019—and he was there on her very first night. The moment he saw her, he thought she was cute and wanted to ask her on a date. But, true to form, he was too shy and hesitant to make a move. Back then, we’d chat here and there, but we weren’t exactly close friends. That all changed when COVID hit. Oak & Rye reopened for pickup and deliveries with a small, limited staff—which included both of us. During those long shifts together, we started talking more and slowly became closer friends. Before we knew it, we were spending time together outside of work—going on adventures, exploring new places, and always accompanied by our dear friend Alexander (since Ashkan was still too shy to ask for a one-on-one date). Towards the end of the year, Fernanda came down with COVID, and we both had to quarantine. What could have been 10 long, lonely days turned into something completely unexpected. We spent hours on FaceTime—talking, laughing, watching movies, and playing games with our friends. Somewhere in those endless conversations, something shifted, and we grew even closer. When quarantine finally ended, we celebrated with our first official date—a trip to San Francisco. That day, Ashkan finally mustered the courage to ask Fernanda to be his girlfriend… only to be sweetly denied. But that wasn’t the end of our story. Ashkan may not have gotten a “yes” that day, but he wasn’t about to give up. And thank goodness he didn’t—because here we are, getting ready to spend forever together.

A Recipe for Love

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Aarush first complimented Ashkan’s watch back in the 7th grade, and they’ve been great friends ever since. Even though Aarush now lives in New York, they stay in touch and check in regularly. Months can pass without seeing each other, but when they finally reconnect, it’s as if no time has passed—just great food, cold beer, and a good ole game of darts to pick up right where they left off.

Aarush Gopalakrishnan

Robert has been one of Ashkan’s closest friends since middle school. Back in the day, you’d often find them arm wrestling to prove who was the strongest (spoiler: the debate continues). These days, they’re more likely to spend late nights gaming together on their computers. With their similar personalities and shared interests, there’s never a dull moment when they’re together.

Robert Carrillo

As Ashkan’s older brother, Amir has been a lifelong role model and confidant. Whether it was giving advice, sharing laughs, or teaching valuable lessons, Amir has always been by Ashkan’s side. 

Amir Ghasemian

Christian and Ashkan have been friends since high school and both share a love for electronic dance music and ramen. Although Christian now lives in San Diego, their friendship still remains strong.

Christian Dunn

Bruno and Ashkan have been friends since high school, sharing a mutual love for travel, adventure, and quality time together. Over the years, they’ve created countless memories exploring new places, but one of their most unforgettable experiences was an RV trip to Yellowstone National Park. Whether they’re hitting the road or hanging out at home, Bruno and Ashkan always know how to have a great time. 

Bruno de Alba

Sam and Ashkan have been friends since high school, bonded by their shared love for the outdoors. One of Ashkan’s favorite memories with Sam is a camping trip to Joshua Tree, where they spent their days climbing rocks and swapping stories under the stars. Now that Sam lives in San Francisco, the fun continues with visits to the city, filled with adventures and plenty of laughs.

Samuel Rossi

Troy and Ashkan have had quite the journey together. From high school to college to even one of our first jobs together working at AMC, slinging out popcorn and watching movie premieres. Together they have created many memories, endless laughs, and great stories that only get better with time.

Troy Quick

Royce and Ashkan have been friends since high school. Back when Ashkan was first building his computer, Royce helped teach him everything he needed to know. If you were to ask someone what Royce and Ashkan have in common they would say they both love buying expensive things!

Royce Allen

Bridesmaids

Fernanda met Ana during her junior year of high school while attending a technical school where they both enrolled in the veterinary program. They instantly hit it off and quickly became inseparable. Over the years, Ana and her family have become like a second family to Fernanda. Ana is the kind of friend everyone wishes for—loving, funny, charismatic, and unwaveringly loyal. Fernanda couldn’t have asked for a better best friend and sister at heart.

Ana Arteaga

Jada and Fernanda have been friends since elementary school. She’s the kind of friend where no matter how much time passes, it always feels like no time at all when they’re together again. The moment you meet Jada, you’ll understand why she’s one of Fernanda’s favorite people. With her kind heart and warm personality, she has a way of bringing a smile to everyone’s face.

Jada Sealy 

Lizzie is Fernanda’s incredible sister-in-law, who has blessed her with two beautiful nieces that she absolutely adores. Lizzie has been part of Fernanda’s family for 16 years now. Growing up they enjoyed watching Marvel movies and playing monopoly. Lizzie has such a vibrant and fun-loving spirit—you can always count on her to be laughing and enjoying life to the fullest.

Lizzie Tapia

Aria and Fernanda met through Robert and have grown to become great friends. Aria is caring, extremely talented and an absolute girl boss. They share their love for board games, gossiping and proving their partners wrong. Whenever they’re together, it’s guaranteed to be a fun time filled with laughter and good vibes.

Aria Holmes

Kassandra is the little sister of the Maid of Honor. After being embraced by their wonderful family, Fernanda has come to see Kass as her own little sister too. Fernanda and Kassandra enjoy blasting music and singing at the top of their lungs. At first, Kass may come across as quiet and reserved, but for those fortunate enough to get to know her, her fun-loving and wild side shines through.

Kassandra Arteaga 

Wedding Party

Q + A

A short 15 minute drive from the venue and only one mile from Seacliff State Beach, this laid-back hotel offers relaxing rooms with flat-screen TVs, desks and minifridges, plus coffeemakers. Suites add separate living areas. Wi-Fi is available.

Seacliff Inn Aptos, Tapestry Collection by Hilton

A short 15 minute drive to the venue and less than a mile from Capitola Beach. Warmly decorated rooms feature free Wi-Fi, flat-screen TVs and sitting areas, as well as minifridges, microwaves and coffeemakers. Suites add separate living areas with pull-out sofas; some have fireplaces and/or whirlpool tubs. This hotel requires a 2-night minimum.

Best Western Plus Capitola By-the-Sea Inn & Suites

Right off of HWY 1, and only a 10 minute drive to the venue. The casual rooms and suites with carpeted floors offer free Wi-Fi, flat-screen TVs and safes, as well as minifridges, microwaves and coffeemakers. Some have balconies, sitting areas and/or fireplaces. Breakfast is complimentary. There's also a sun deck, a seasonal outdoor pool and a business center. Parking is available.

Quality Inn & Suites Capitola By the Sea

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Registry

We are so excited to celebrate with all of you! Our wedding will incorporate beautiful traditions from our cultures, and we want to share a little about them so you know what to expect. These traditions have deep significance and bring an extra layer of joy, symbolism, and fun to the celebration. Whether you’ve experienced them before or will be seeing them for the first time, we hope you enjoy being part of these special moments!

What is a Sofreh Aghd?

The Sofreh Aghd is a cherished Persian wedding tradition dating back thousands of years. It is a ceremonial spread set up during the wedding ceremony, filled with symbolic items that represent blessings, love, and prosperity for the couple’s new life together. The word “sofreh” means “spread,” and “aghd” refers to the wedding ceremony. This beautifully arranged display is placed in front of the couple as they sit side by side, facing their guests. Each item on the sofreh carries a special meaning such as such as a mirror (reflection and light), candles (energy and brightness), sugar cones (sweetness in life), and honey (for a sweet marriage) to name a few. The Sofreh Aghd is not only visually stunning but also deeply meaningful, reflecting the hope and joy surrounding the couple’s new beginning.

What is La Vibora de la Mar?

La Vibora de la Mar (The Sea Snake Dance) is an exciting and lively tradition that takes place during Mexican weddings. It symbolizes the challenges a couple may face in marriage and the importance of staying strong together with the support of family and friends. Here’s how it works: The bride and groom stand on chairs facing each other while holding hands, forming a symbolic bridge. Around them, designated family members and friends stand guard to keep them balanced and protected. Meanwhile, the guests form a line, holding hands and moving quickly in a snake-like motion around the couple. The energy builds as the “snake” weaves through the reception, darting under raised arms and looping back around to create a fast-paced, unpredictable dance. The goal? To playfully attempt to knock the couple off their chairs while the family members work hard to keep them steady. This tradition is all about movement, laughter, and excitement. It represents the ups and downs of marriage—sometimes things will shake you, but with love and support, you’ll stay standing strong. Guests of all ages are encouraged to join in, making it a memorable and fun moment for everyone!

What is El Baile del Billete?

Also known as the Money Dance, El Baile del Billete is a festive way for guests to show their love and support. During this dance, guests pin money onto the bride and grooms outfits as they take turns dancing with them. The contributions symbolize well wishes for prosperity and a happy life together. So bring your dancing shoes and get ready to join in!

Ashkan & Fernanda

Ashkan & Fernanda

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