What does "Rustic Formal" mean? What should I wear?

We’re going for a formal feel but cowboy boots are totally welcome and encouraged. Think classy barn-- formal dresses, suits and button ups but if you feel up to it, add the boots for some boot scootin boogeying on the dance floor! If you're unsure, feel free to ask us! 😊

Where is the ceremony taking place?

At 2:30 sharp, the ceremony will begin on the Manor House Lawn at The Barns at Mattaponi Springs. Please arrive between 2-2:15pm to ensure a prompt start time. Parking is available on site, and there will be attendants and signage guiding you to the parking and ceremony. In the event of unbearable weather, the ceremony will take place indoors at one of the Barns (same location).

Can I bring a guest?

We are blessed with far too many family and friends to count and have kept it to our closest 180 friends and family... I know you are thinking- wow that's a lot-- we know! It's a good problem to have, but PLEASE help us out: only bring a plus one if your wedding invite states +1 or includes your guest names.

What are the RSVP deadlines?

By August 1st. But seriously we know you might forget (we've got about 2 weddings where we were guilty of forgetting this year alone) so as soon as you get the invite if you want to be sure you are counted!

Food?

Yes, of course there will be food! We are anticipating a BBQ style buffet for dinner. With any specific dietary restrictions, we ask that you let us know far in advance so that we can try our best to accommodate. Gluten-free options are currently accommodated for.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We ask that you do not take out phones or cameras during the ceremony, and can be fully present as we say our vows. We have an AMAZING photographer as well as Anton on video/ so the moments will be captured with your smiling faces in them!

Is there a wedding hashtag?

Yes! We heard #lastsmoochtilsooch was taken <3

So for our wedding hashtag will be: #Ashley&TrevorForever

Is there an after-party?

At 10:00 PM we will be doing final sendoff. We ask that all guests not staying on the premises find their way back to their accommodations at that time.

Can I bring my kids?

As much as we love your kiddos, the only kids at this party will be our ring bearer and flower girls.

Where can I find accommodations nearby?

For some individuals in the bridal party and immediate families, we will be staying on property that Thursday for the rehearsal dinner and the Friday after the wedding.

For anyone not in the bridal party, please see the travel link for our hotel block at the Fairfield OR check out some of the options below.

Hampton Inn – Fredericksburg

540.898.5000

hamptoninn.com

4800 Market Street Fredericksburg, VA

Hidden Acres Family Campgrounds

Cabins, RV Sites and Tents

hiddenacresva.com

17391 Richmond Tpke Mikfor, VA 22514

A note from us: As we embark on this incredible journey together, we want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you. Your love, support, and presence in our lives mean the world to us. Your encouragement and joy have helped shape us into the people we are today, and we are beyond grateful to have you by our side on this special day. We can’t wait to celebrate with all of you and create memories that will last a lifetime. Thank you for being part of our story and making our wedding day even more unforgettable.

A&T

Wedding Day

Ceremony

2:30 PM–10:00 PM

Ceremony and Reception