Bella is my mini-me, built-in-best friend. Although we are 7 years apart, Bella has been one of the closest people to me my whole life. Our friendship has gone through many stages, but Bella has truly seen it all and loved me selflessly along the way. Wherever we go, people immediately comment on how much we look alike (which we never understood) and most times they think Bella is the older one! I am so proud of the young woman she is blossoming into - wise beyond her years. The Lord has truly blessed me with a genuine, caring, creative, and spunky sister. Bella is not only an amazingly gifted artist, she is the life of the party! You can put Bella in any room and she will make friends with everyone. I will always cherish our daily coffee runs and late night drives when we just wanted to listen to music. We have so many silly memories together, as well as some difficult ones we had to endure. I can't wait to see how the Lord continues to grow our family.
Sloan Kalavesis - Bridesmaid
Sloan has been in my life since middle school, but we truly reconnected in 2021. We have always seen things eye to eye. Sloan is one of the most thoughtful and hilarious people I've ever met. They warn you to not move in with your best friend, but we did not listen, which ended up being the best decision. We were roomies for 1.5 yrs. It was a unique and special experience, having a front row seat in one another's lives during a season of change and growth we were simultaneously experiencing. Leave it to Sloan to have the best snacks and sweets - we did not see a day without a pickle jar, stick of butter, or something strawberry flavored in our fridge. Now that we are both brides-to-be, life looks different, but I will always see Sloan as a sister and I am thankful to God for our friendship.
JuJu Hernandez - Bridesmaid
JuJu came into the picture in 2022, during the time I gave my life to the Lord. Providentially, she started going to the same Bible study as me, a month after I joined. Juju was also a new believer, and we were both so hungry for God's Word and eager to grow, which is what connected us so quickly and deeply. From the beginning of our friendship to now, many of our conversations are centered on Christ and we often reflect on where we are at in our walk - it's been a beautiful and sometimes challenging experience. There have been several instances where we have gone through similar trials around the same time. I see that as a blessing from God, that we were able to encourage one another all the more. It has been a joy to see how JuJu and I have changed through the work God has done in us. If you know JuJu, you know how willing she is to help the Church and how much she cares for her loved ones. JuJu always shows up with a bouquet of flowers and ready to serve.
Brooke Antariksa - Bridesmaid
Brooke and I met at our church back in 2019. Someone intentionally introduced us to one another, because we had quite a few things in common. I immediately found a great friend in Brooke, and have truly looked up to her ever since. Shortly after we met, Brooke met her now husband. Over the past five years, it has been a joy to watch Brooke become a wife and amazing mama! She has the cutest sense of style and dresses her little one in the best fits! What I admire and appreciate about Brooke is how strong, loving, and patient she has been throughout the years. Even before I came to truly know our Lord, Brooke always pointed me back to Christ and encouraged me through all of the trials and even helped me see how gracious God has been in the good times. I without a doubt can see Brooke continuing to share with me her wisdom and experiences as a wife and a mother, as I follow with the same Godly aspirations as she does.
Charity Glenn - Bridesmaid
Charity was one of my very first friends at Grace and we met in the basement of our church in 2012! We immediately hit it off, because we were both shy, loved ballet, and played piano. Although there have been a few years where we have not spoken much, because our lives went in separate directions, we always have come back to one another and it felt like there was no time in between us. Charity is a light and has a joy about her that is contagious. She makes the absolute best cookies and is a wonderful host. I am inspired by her creativity, love for cooking, and ability to make even the simplest dish look beautiful. We could talk for hours and hours and have three different conversations going on at once. It has been so sweet to watch Charity grow in the Lord and flourish this past year.
Olivia Tadler - Bridesmaid
Olivia and I met in the worship center of our church about a year and a half ago. One of the first things I noticed about Olivia was how good of a listener she is. I have met very few people who ask intentional questions, and remember to follow up with conversations weeks later the way she does, with true care. I have learned so much from Olivia and her walk with Christ has encouraged me in so many ways. I appreciate her boldness and desire to honor God in all she does. From our many trips to coffee shops, reading the Bible and sharing what we are learning in our own studies, to walking around farmer's markets, and our encouraging phone calls where we update each other on our lives, I am so blessed to have a friend in Olivia.
Kyle Duzick - Best Man
Kyle Duzick is my oldest brother and best man. Kyle is such a loyal person and the type of friend who anyone would want to have. I am privileged to have had him as a guiding influence all of these years. I have always been impressed with his work ethic, no matter how challenging something is, he sees things through to the finish. I've always loved spending time with Kyle because we have a good time hanging out no matter what we are doing. Kyle is a low-profile guy, but hands down, one of the smartest and one of the most down to earth people you will ever meet.
Benjamin Kasper - Groomsman
Ben Kasper is Becca's younger brother, and Bella's twin. I have had the privilege of getting to know him since Becca and I started dating. Ben has a winning personality and a great way with words. He is truly one of a kind. Ben is a hard worker who goes all out for the things he wants to accomplish. He lives with four women, which has naturally given him the practice and ability to have confidence and know how to treat women well. He even cooks steak dinners for Becca and me. Ben's goofy but witty humor makes everyone laugh. So glad to have another brother.
Daniel Kimball - Groomsman
Daniel Kimball has been a great friend of mine since I started going to Grace Community Church. We connected quickly and bonded over similar trials we have both gone through. Our interests and hobbies do not always align, but Daniel has a way of connecting with everyone, regardless of their passions and interests. We have done so much life together! Our time has been filled with movie watching, eating, deep conversations, and just plain goofy times too. I am 100% myself when we are together. Even though he is my roommate, sometimes we go weeks without seeing each other, but when we do, it feels as if no time has passed - we immediately catch up and encourage one another. He has always been there for me no matter what and everyone can see the light of Christ shining through his life.
Jake Taylor - Groomsman
Jake Taylor is Bella's boyfriend (Becca's maid-of-honor) and has become a dear friend of mine over the last couple of years. Jake has an unwavering commitment to Christ and I've been blessed and encouraged to see him grow since I've known him. I love that he gives the time of day to anyone he is talking to and can make conversation with anyone. If Jake is in your life, then you know he makes your life more full. We've made many memories together while hanging out with the Kasper girls and I can't wait to see what the future holds for him. To many more double dates and movie nights which only consist of thrillers 99% of the time!
Jonathan Valero - Groomsman
JV and I met at church in 2021 and I am so amazed with how much we have both grown ever since. I have always been impressed with JV's dedication to his responsibilities and schoolwork, even though it has come in between us hanging out at times! It's been a beautiful sight to see his hard work pay off and watch him give all the glory to Christ. When I am with JV, I can expect to be in the jacuzzi, watching football, playing madden or telling some wild stories. We have the type of friendship where we both know we can reach out to each other whenever we need help with anything.
Devon Cobos - Groomsman
Devon Cobos has been one of my closet friends since middle school. Devon and I really have been through thick and thin. We have seen each other at our lowest points and have enjoyed so many great times too. I've always appreciated the way he thinks logically about everything and is phased by nothing. From late night adventures, to working on cars, to helping each other move, and so much in-between, Devon is someone I truly have done life with. From growing up in Burbank together, to both of us soon living in Simi, excited to see what's next.