When I came back from college, I was telling everyone that if God wanted me to marry then he would have to set me up because I was done! My childhood friend (Hannah Cozens) reached out to me and stated that her Husband (Dylan Cozens) has a cousin that they wanted to set me up with. We planned to go on a double date and watch the first twilight movie. The day of, I was camping with my family and did not want to leave early. I wasn’t even going to shower beforehand but my mom insisted that I go home first and clean up. At that point, I’ve been set up on a lot of dates that didn’t end well so I wasn’t super excited. Once I was there, my whole vibe changed. I became excited to be there and didn’t want to leave. We watched Twilight and I trauma dumped (to scare him away but it did not work). I realized that this guy was kinda cool. He introduced himself as Coelsun but everyone called him Coel, so I didn’t know what to call him. I probably didn’t use his name until like 3 weeks in because I didn’t know if he went by Coelsun or Coel. After we said our goodbyes, we went to our cars and he immediately added me on Snapchat. Hannah shortly after messaged me and said Coel asked for your Snap. I remember thinking to myself, that was fast. We talked everyday after that. For our second date, we watched a scary movie and I talked the entire time. Never stopped talking. I told him about my whole life. One thing about me is that if youre willing to listen then I’m willing to talk. We quickly started to see each other more and more and eventually kissed hehe. I knew I fell for him when he was the only person I wanted to talk to at the end of the night, when my cheeks hurt from laughing so hard, when I wanted him to meet my family and I wanted to meet his, when he made me want to be a better person and do more in my life, and when I couldn’t see me growing old with anybody else.

It's hard to pinpoint when I knew bella was the one. Like most things I feel like it was not one "wow" moment but all of them little ones put together. Like how most things are the sums of its parts me and bella's relationship is a sum of our moments. We were set up by my cousin Dylan and his wife, Hannah (mostly Hannah). It was a Twilight watch party Because It was infact "hoa hoa hoa oh" time of year. To this party, I wore a heart-shaped locket with a wolf on it inside a photo of Taylor Lautner (I of course am on team Jacob). When she did eventually see this locket (it was one of the first things I showed her). I think I just really wanted to see if she was someone I could clown around with and have a fun time. With the space I was in when I met her that is exactly what I needed. So the moment we went our separate ways after twilight I had to get her number. I stupidly texted her immediately of course like right when I was still just out side. But I wanted to talk to her more she was exactly what I needed a person to talk to. That takes us to what happened during our second date. It was another great moment. Here this girl who has only watched twilight with me and she immediately agree to come watch a horror movie in my spooky basement apartment. We both agreed on a whatever horror movie we both hadn't "seen". It was a great time we start watching and chit chatting here and there about the movie. But bella keeps doubting if she has seen it or not. Turns out she has seen the movie and she decided to not watch it anymore and to just talk to me who has never seen the movie and I was kinda interested. I act liked I wanted to watch the movie but talking to her was way better. It the nicest way she just wouldn't shut up and I loved it! So in conclusion bella has been what keeps me up at night and I love her for it.