Ludlow Mansion Events

Rehersal Dinner

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Reception

Our Wedding

Once upon a time in the wild World Wide Web… Nicole ordered a Ben. Ben ordered a Nicole. And after one too many cringey first dates, the algorithm finally got it right. The couple first matched on Hinge while Ben was quarantined with COVID-19—his first time catching it, and yes, he spent his birthday alone in isolation. (Sad face.) But they kept chatting, and when he was feeling better, he planned their first date a whole week in advance—confirmed the day before, and everything! A man with a plan! Things were off to a great start! BONUS: Ben drove all the way from Fond du Lac to Middleton just to meet Nicole and Zoe. The plan? A thoughtful walk at Phesant Branch Conservancy and the meeting place, Orchid Heights Park, with their two pups, Zoe and Maya. Ben even made sure it would be gentle enough for Zoe, who was recovering from a dog park injury. EXTRA Heart POINTS! It was a sunny day in the middle of winter (a rare 40 degrees in Wisconsin = heat wave), and they walked through the Pheasant Branch Conservancy, swapping their values, stories, sharing laughs, and quickly realizing they had something special. As the youths say these days, they were vibing. The two wrapped up the date with a drink and a bite on the patio of Octopi Brewery (dog-friendly, of course)—and just like that, they had their last first date.

Since their first date, Ben and Nicole have already experienced major life milestones — from loss, to a couple of out-of-country trips, and another big adventure… becoming homeowners!

Ben and Nicole can’t wait to say ‘I do,’ in a celebration that’s equal parts heartfelt chaos, family fun, and Bolivian spice—chuño (a bolivian black potato) included, of course!

Our Story

Best Man

Sebastian Rostig 

Matron of Honor

Claudia Minnickel

Parents of the Bride

Elizabeth and Raul Sandoval 

Parents of Groom

Judy and Mark Marschall

Padrinos (Godparents)

Ingrid and Juan Ortiz

Barb and Bob Keller

Lorena and Markus Rostig

Bridesmaids

Claire Minnickel 

Aneliz Ortiz

Katie Schultz

Leslie Walker

Amparo Moreno

Cristina Rivera

Groomsmen

Richard Cawthon

Alex Marschall

Curtis Marschall

Kevin Sandoval

Flower Ladies

Abuela Ruth Torrez

Faye Becker

Ushers 

Javier Minnickel 

Lilien Rostig

Our four legged girls 

Zoe and Maya 

Escorted by: 

Juni (Juan) Ortiz

Wedding Party

💍 Wedding Day Logistics

✈️ Travel + Stay

We thank you for making the trip to celebrate our special day with us!

🍽 Food + Fun

🎁 Gifts + Registry

Q + A

General Travel Info

Your presence truly means more than we can put into words! For our international guests, flying into Chicago (ORD) is often the most affordable option, though Madison (MSN) also has a regional airport. For those traveling within the U.S., Madison (MSN) is likely the easiest airport to reach. Depending on when you arrive, we’ve also shared hotel recommendations in Madison. Our venue is about 45 minutes from Madison, and we especially recommend staying in Monroe for convenience and charm, though splitting your time between Madison and Monroe is a lovely option too. You’ll find hotel suggestions for both below, and we can’t wait to celebrate together.

Hotels in Monroe 

Originally constructed in 1924 by Leland C. White, Eugene Hotel sits centrally located on the square in Monroe, WI. We are excited that the restoration of Eugene Hotel is underway! Booking link to our room block below.

Eugene Hotel

AmericInn by Wyndham Monroe

Super 8 by Wyndham Monroe WI

Welcome to Carriage House Bed Breakfast, a beautifully restored Greek Revival B&amp;B from 1864, located just blocks from historic downtown. Ideal for a girls' weekend getaway in Monroe, WI, our inn combines classic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy local shopping, dining, and cheese while experiencing our cozy atmosphere and personalized service. Your host, Maria, is dedicated to ensuring a memorable stay for every guest.

Carriage House Bed and Breakfast LLC

A beautiful second floor Penthouse that offers an excellent view of the historic court house and square. Our location gives you walking distance to all places on the square including the 2nd oldest brewery in the country, boutiques, hair and nail salons, home decor , antique shops, clothing and apparel, specialty treats, restaurants and bars. The penthouse sleeps 6 guests. Free parking and also a private elevator for any handicap needs.. The space A spacious bedroom with balcony and walk in closet. Primary bathroom with full walk in shower and seat bench. Guest accessThe Penthouse offers your own personal elevator to allow you access to the second floor if needed. Other things to noteMonroe is home to Cheese Days, concerts on the square, cars on the square and also brewery tours.

MJ's Penthouse

Hotels in Madison 

Best Western Premier Park Hotel

The Madison Concourse Hotel and Governor’s Club

Hyatt Place Madison / Verona

Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Madison Verona

Travel

The Proposal 

Engagement Photos

Ben & Nicole + Zoe & Maya 

Building our home! 

Photos

HMMMMMM? You may be wondering....

We’d love to see you in cocktail or formal attire—but more than anything, wear what makes you feel confident and comfy! 

BECAUSE... You'll be dancing all night! 

We hope you enjoy your night like him! 

Ultimate Formal Attire Shopping Guide

25 Hand-Picked Formal Guest Dresses

Tux vs. Suit: What's the Difference?

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Dress Code

Registry/Gifts

Madison

Ben and I LOVE having breakfast here! Make sure you get there by 9AM otherwise you might be waiting 15-30 minutes depending on the size of your party! TOTALLY WORTH THE WAIT!

Original Pancake House

Hidden Gem. Hands down, best ramen we've had in Wisconsin. Also- try the Hottie Hottie. YUMMM!!

HERS sushi bar and ramen

Need a Good brunch place? this is one of our favorite spots!

Bar Corallini

Great breakfast spot! Grab a cruffin...or 3 for a sweet treat!!

Bloom Bake Shop

Take a walk where we had our first date! Its beautiful during the fall!

Pheasant Branch Conservancy

Looking for a good book? Need a drink or some coffee? Check out one of our favorite date places! Great book selection.

Leopold's Books Bar Caffè

A hidden gem in Madison! Check out this unique experience-- an old train car turned into a bar! Great drinks and chill vibes. One of our favorite places.

Local Motive

We can't say enough good things about Maria Angelica &amp; her team. They've been great at helping us craft a delicious menu. Want to try other options post wedding? Check them out!! Support our Local Businesses!

Estacion Inka

Monroe

On Saturdays, over&nbsp;20&nbsp;vendors sell the freshest Wisconsin-grown produce, plants, flowers, baked goods, meats, and cheese. Crafts, arts, pottery, and other hand-made items are also available. At the height of the season, the market brings more than 2,000 shoppers downtown weekly.​The Main Street Monroe Farmers Market operates from 8am – 1pm on Saturdays and 12-3pm on Wednesdays on the square.

Main Street Monroe Farmers Market

New Glarus, Wisconsin, is a charming village known as "America's Little Switzerland" due to its strong Swiss heritage.&nbsp;It was settled by Swiss immigrants in 1845 and retains many Swiss traditions, including language, folk customs, and architecture.&nbsp;Visitors can enjoy the Swiss Historical Village, explore the New Glarus Brewing Company, and experience the scenic Sugar River State Trail.&nbsp;

Visit New Glarus

Baraboo

This is a beautiful spot to hike, stargaze, hang out, or grill at the beach... This is also where we got engaged! Also, it will be peak fall color season around the time of our wedding.

Devil's Lake State Park

Things to Do

Ben & Nicole

Ben & Nicole

B&N

Wedding Day

3:00 PM–3:30 PM

Ceremony

3:30 PM–4:30 PM

Cocktail Hour

4:30 PM–11:30 PM

Reception