Pat Parham [Single] - Best Man
Pat was my high school wrestling partner, chief partner in crime, and is often referred to as "The Tailgate Nazi". If I ever got in a fight, Pat would be the first one to jump in with me whether I was in the right or clearly in the wrong. We've been to Europe together twice and I would count on many more international trips to come.
Brad Ellis [Taken] - Groomsman
Brad has been one of my best friends since middle school and is easily in the top 2 for smartest friends. My fondest memory is our little excursion over to Ireland where we missed our train to Killarney because he had made a mess in the sink in his bedroom the night before. Brad will likely win the Nobel Peace Prize some day.
Josh Rolsky [Taken] - Groomsman
Josh and I met on our 6th Grade Football team, THE Chicago Bears. Our friendship began on the offensive line, back when we were much closer in size, and I was known to purposefully step on his foot mid play for fun. Our relationship hasn't changed much since.
David Larson [Engaged] - Groomsman
David and I met in middle school as well and would also be counted in my top 2 smartest friends. We've played many years of soccer together, were roommates for like 7 years, and have competed in countless games of Catan. I might be as smart as David if it weren't for Mrs. Arnold and Miss Diamente. David prides himself on ensuring our country doesn't get Nuked.
Chris Tito [Single] - Groomsman
Tito is almost exclusively referred to by his last name, given its strong connection to Vodka. We met in college through BGR. I spent much of my junior and senior years at his houses which were the go to spot for a summer shandy and some spike ball on football game day. I once drove from Indy to Chicago to stay with him for an Avicci concert with about 2 hours notice. Tito is the definition of spontaneity.
Aaron Corbett [Engaged] - Groomsman
Corbett is also typically referred to by his last name only. We met on the infamous spring break trip in Fort Lauderdale where he coined the phrase "Cops, No One's Home, Friends, Come on In". We've attended countless music festivals together, including the grand daddy of them all, Tomorrowland in Boom, Belgium. Corbett is the ultimate friend and prioritizes just being together over everything else.
Cal Murray [Single] - Groomsman
Cal and I met post-college when he came up for a music festival in Chicago. Little did we know at the time, but we would ultimately fall in love. Cal is the only person I know that can be an absolute gentleman one second, then rip someone a new one the next second while blasting just the dirtiest of dub step bangers.
Jason Salguero [Taken] - Groomsman
Jason and I actually became friends in Middle School as well, but only knew each other for a short time before he transferred schools. Little did I know, that he would re-enter my life at Purdue first at one of the infamous Snu's Days and then at the infamous Spring Break trip. Since then we've attended many music festivals, camping trips, and Indy 500s. Jason would do anything for his friends.
EJ Williams [Married] - Groomsman
EJ and I met at Purdue during BGR as well during Junior year. We've taken a multi-week trip to Europe, attended multiple festivals and Indy 500's, and many a boat trip. EJ's favorite place in the world is the water and will do anything in his power to find a vessel to captain. EJ enjoys bucking the system and finding the next great adventure.
Joey Frechin [Single] - Groomsman
Joey is another friend that I met at Purdue and attendee of the infamous spring break trip. He is a multi-talented individual who enjoys music, gymnastics, rock climbing, and getting into heated debates with his friends over a couple of beers. We've had many fun excursions throughout Chicago during his time here, though we can no longer go to the local German pub. Joey would ideally spend the rest of his days experiencing the outdoors through hikes, camping, and rock climbing - becoming one with nature.
Michael Gray [Single] - Groomsman
Michael and I also met in BGR my junior year at Purdue. We enjoyed many an evening at various bars, apartments, and frats imbibing in our favorite beverages. We've been roommates since he moved to Chicago in 2016 and have spent many a brunch, house party, cubs game, super bowl, or poker night together. Michael has a heart of gold and would do anything for his friends or his family. His mother Carmen is also a saint and sends us chocolate covered Nutter Butter cookies a few times a year.
Mitchell Esposito [Single] - Groomsman
Mitchell is the brother of the bride, but also has many connections to the rest of the bridal party through Purdue's Glee club and PMO. Even outside of Deanna and I's relationship he already knew Cal and Corbett and will fit in just fine with this group of hooligans. I'm very excited to be his brother in law, and very much look forward to doing brother in law things like grilling, tailgates, fishing trips, cottage weekends, you know brother in law stuff!
Nghtmre - DJ
I met Nghtmre with Corbett during the Lights All Night music festival where I asked if he would like to DJ the wedding. He immediately accepted since we're so chill and fun to be around!
Bre Machay [Married] - Matron of Honor
Bre and I have known each other since 1st grade, clocking in at 24 years! Bre is the best planner and has been such a huge help in everything wedding related. Bre and Ben bond over the marketing world they live in and are always teaching me about new music. Bre is always there as my perfect beer flight partner and overall adventure buddy in everything we do!
Mallory Row [Single] - Bridesmaid
For those that knew us in middle school, Mal and I were known to everyone as Twinkies! As adults you would never know, but as kids, we used to look like twins and were always together. Now, almost 700 miles apart, she is still one of my best friends and is still in my phone as MalPaigeGaskarth!
Stefani Wade [Engaged] - Bridesmaid
I met Stef through Ben. Ben and David have always been roommates and as girlfriends of the roommates, Stef and I started to see each other every week. Through brunches and game nights, we quickly became best friends! Stef is always there for a girls night with wine and Chinese take out, which have become more frequent as we are both planning weddings during quarantine!
Michelle Carter [Married] - Bridesmaid
Michelle still holds the record for my longest roommate with 4 years together at Purdue! I love getting to see her and her perfect family whenever we come home to visit Carmel. She is best known for her love of Lil Wayne and her mastery of April fools pranks!
Lauren Berlin [Married] - Bridesmaid
Lauren was one of my very first friends at Purdue. Even though she lives in Houston/Philly, we have stayed close through annual visits, recurring zoom calls, and Animal Crossing game nights! Lauren has recently found a new love as a plant mama and she has the most creative eye for design!
Abbie Sommer [Taken] - Bridesmaid
Abbie is the sister of the groom, but Deanna is very excited to have a new sister! Abbie is the go to person in the family for anything and everything food related, and she will have another important role in the wedding. We won't make her trade in her bridesmaid dress for an apron though! :)