Ben and Casandra met December 1, 2018 on a dating app called POF. Ben was on the app for 2 weeks, and Casandra had been on there for a while looking for her forever. They talked for a while a finally met up on March 17, 2019. Their first date was at the Smokin Eagle in Leroy NY.

Eventually they saw each other more and more, from the first time they hung out at Casandra's house she knew he was the one for her. Ben asked Casandra to be his on April 27, 2019.

They have been together for 5 years now and more in love than ever. They have a home together and share it with their two kitties Nala, and Sophie. They are planning on having a family one day.