Once upon a time .... Our story is being written

Its been a beautiful story, written by God ...

I can tell you one of the chapters that is ready! I met Graydon, there were a few days left until his 50th birthday, I was invited to have the second date on this day. Despite the challenge of the language but, at the same time, the curiosity to know a little more about the man, kind, extremely calm, polite, intelligent and humourous, we followed ... in a moment of our conversation on this day, he told me that he was closing a chapter of his life and able to write others! So, I said who knows, maybe I couldnt be present in one of these chapters. Not knowing that God already had his pen active in our lives, because God was writing a new story in my life in every way.

The happiness of receiving your messages on the day and the video call for a good night became unique moments. Since then, every night we have had this habit and now that we are together, we can no longer be necessary, but when by chance he travels he stays.

Both in a moment of transition in their lives, both wanting to start new, both finalising chapters and ready to start others, we had and have our challenges.

And every day, we are overcoming these challenges. Graydon with his way of being extremely kind and pleasant won my attention, however, he also showed himself a firm, objective and clear man. Over time he used to say a few things and I answered; be careful!!!!!!

You become eternally responsible for what you captivate is a phrase from the book The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.

We have a small difference in the dates of our birthday and as we were getting to know each other he gave me a canvas of the little princes painting on my birthday, the canvas arrived after the date but it was with great enthusiasm and joy that I received it. He asked where I was going to put it? Well, I remember I said, if you dont mind you can keep it there for me for a while, when Im at my house Ill put it there in a special place!

Because each one becomes responsible for someone they captivate, regardless of whether it is a friendship, a love, a family member... care, affection, complicity will be continuous…

Ill have to advance a little bit... after a year, I already said to Graydon I love you I cant explain, I dont try to understand because its been a relatively short time since we met, but I know I love you! A year passed and again his birthday, this time I presented him with a second painting from the same atelier in France where we acquired our canvases. I told you, the first painting re-presents to me I love you the second that I am giving you, represents; I love you, every day, a little more ...

We decided to live together and the paintings are the only ones hanging in our room, one on each side ... and every day when I wake up I see I love you or I love you, every day a little more.

I am responsible for the feeling I conquered and I am also responsible for the feeling he conquered, today I understand that love goes far beyond saying I love you every day! I thank God for the opportunity to live all this at the age of 48, I thank God for allowing me to meet and be next to a God-fearing man, an excellent father, a good son, the love of my life!.

Saying I love you, the father, mother, son is easy and has always been... for a man, graydon was the first and will be the only one.

I know that this chapter in our lives will have many sub-chapters. And I hope God is the only one to finish this book, in the best way he wants for our lives. I anticipate, Im not in any hurry to see this finished book (laughs).