While we think you should take a night off from parenting duties, we don’t mind celebrating with all the kids as well! Please note there will be alcohol served and children remain the responsibility of their parents/guardians.

If a guest wasn’t listed on your RSVP, please do not bring one—our reception is planned for the confirmed number of attendees. If you need to request a plus-one due to a significant other or other circumstances, contact us and we’ll do our best to accommodate. Children not included on your RSVP are welcome. If you have any questions, please reach out.

Casual attire is perfect—think nice jeans, sundresses, slacks, or a comfortable dress. We’ll be outdoors in Van Wert, OH on a fall evening, so layers for later in the evening may be needed. Feel free to dress up a bit for photos if you’d like.

Our registries are listed on the Registry page of this website — you'll find our Amazon registry and our honeymoon fund there. If you prefer, you can also search for Bobby Grothjan and Lakin Basham on Amazon to find our registry.

We didn’t set up a room block, but there are several hotels in Van Wert and nearby Delphos. If you’d like recommendations or help finding nearby options or rates, please reach out to us—we’re happy to help.