Please RSVP by August 1st, 2025. If you want the most options with the best rates, it’s best to book early. Since we need to know who is attending in order to plan seating and meals, we recommend you make your RSVP as soon as you get the invitation. Any RSVP received after the date above will be marked as a "no" as we will be sending final head-counts to vendors.

Yes, and color code! We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us. We are dressing in Formal/black-tie optional on our wedding day, specifically black. Ladies can wear black midi, tea, or floor length dresses. Keep in mind, we will be outside in the mountains, so if you choose to wear floor length, please expect the bottom to get some New Mexico character. Gentleman should wear a black suit or black tuxedo. No jeans, shorts, short sleeves, sneakers, or non-black colored dresses, suits or tuxes please! Keep in mind we will be in the mountains, so please make sure your shoes are comfortable as you will have a little jaunt to where ceremony is located. If you have any questions, please text either Brendan or Kara.

Please bring some 1’s and 5’s for the bartenders and servers taking care of you throughout the Reception's dinner.

Gifts are not necessary for a destination wedding. Making the trip out is a gift in itself, but a card is still a nice touch. Otherwise, boxed gifts or cards with money should be given once we return home.

Please refer to the Travel tab and decide what is best for you!

Your wedding invite will indicate if you are able to bring a plus one.

To ensure we are all fully present, we are having an "unplugged" Ceremony. We have lined up an amazing photographer to capture the special moments & during that time, we request you turn off your phones. We do not want to see the latest iPhone snapping pictures in the background of our Ceremony. During any other time, you are welcome to take pictures as you please! This includes the Welcome Dinner, the Reception and the Sunday Brunch.

We ask that you arrive before 3:30pm as the Ceremony starts at 4:00pm. This way, you are able to mingle and find your seat. If you do happen to be late, please do NOT walk down the aisle.

Brendan: 636-627-9772 Kara: 314-753-7419