Just like many couples, our story started on a dating app, Hinge to be exact. Ross's profile was a "red flag" as he had no questions or prompts on it. But I liked the cowboy hat and swiped right. As most of you know, Ross is the furthest thing from a cowboy, and I quickly learned that after we started talking. I didn't go out of my way to meet men back then. I was content with my busy cycling single life. Yet, I found myself texting Ross for a few weeks.

On a very rainy Sunday, September 11, 2022 I was cheering on many athletes in the Ironman. I texted Ross and invited him to come join me if he was interested in meeting in person. To my surprise, he took me up on the offer. Now, my friends, being the protective big brothers they are, wanted Ross to meet us on State Street to approve and reassure me of my safety. Knowing that was a terrible idea for a first impression, I asked Ross to meet me at the capital corner. Here is a little thing about me: when I am in my environment (cycling, triathlon, racing), I am loud and energetic; let's be honest, I am a lot. I was looking forward to seeing him again because Ross saw me in my environment on day one and didn't run for the hills.

In our first week, we saw each other three times, which was very abnormal for me, given my busy schedule. But with Ross, it was effortless and natural. I found great comfort when I was with Ross, and I always looked forward to our next date together.

On October 6, 2022, Ross asked me to be his girlfriend. Without hesitation, I said yes. Back then, I knew that this was something more. Ross was not just my boyfriend but started to be my true best friend.

God has His hands all over this relationship. It is a gift to not only grow closer in relationship with Ross but also to walk with Ross as he seeks the Lord's endless love and mercy. To be with a man who prays with me, learns with me, and always puts God at the center of our life together is a true gift from God. I am so excited for December 28, 2024, to be one with my forever. Together, we run this race of life that the Lord gives us, and together, we strive to bring each other to Heaven. I thank God every day for Ross; I can't wait to see what God has in store for our future together!

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