Brittany & Colin

October 17, 2024 • Voorhees Township, NJ

Brittany & Colin

October 17, 2024 • Voorhees Township, NJ

A Hokie Love Story

Brittany and Colin met in their freshman year of college at Virginia Tech. They started out as “rats”, otherwise known as freshman cadets, in Virginia Tech’s Corps of Cadets program. They were in the same company and had to refer to each other as “Bud Neff” and “Bud De Maria”. Cute, right?


The saying, “strength in numbers”, is very popular among “rat” cadets in order to avoid facing the wrath of cadre alone. As a company, the “rats” compared schedules and timed their walks to and from shared classes. It just so happened that Brittany and Colin were in Poli Sci 1024 together. They walked to class and sat next to each other in the front row. Brittany wishes she could say that they hit it off and talked the whole time, but she couldn’t stop dozing off and Colin had to keep nudging her awake. He was a good bud. It wasn’t until a week later that they decided to sit in the back of the lecture hall. The only reason Brittany stayed awake during that class is because Colin talked to her the whole time. It became their favorite class even though Colin hated the subject. Later on, Colin told Brittany that he found out early in the semester that he didn’t actually have to take the class, but he stayed in it just to be able to spend time with Brittany.


Brittany and Colin started officially dating during the Spring 2018 semester of their freshman year. They went through college growing and learning together through changes in majors, COVID, and even changes in their ROTC branches. In 2021, Brittany graduated and commissioned as a Transportation Officer in the Army, and Colin followed in 2022 also graduating and commissioning as a Transportation Officer in the Army. They both got stationed at Joint Base Lewis McChord in Tacoma, Washington. Through moving across the country, getting their first apartment, and embarking in pet parenthood, they did it together. Colin got down on one knee on October 7, 2023 to make it official.


Brittany and Colin are so grateful to have gone through their journey together and can’t wait to celebrate their next chapter with all of their closest friends and family on October 17th!

Brittany and Colin start their freshman year at Virginia Tech in India Company together.

August 31, 2017

Brittany and Colin start their freshman year at Virginia Tech in India Company together.
Their first Valentine's Day! Brittany and Colin had been dating for just about a month.

February 14, 2018

Their first Valentine's Day! Brittany and Colin had been dating for just about a month.
The first of many family beach vacations! This was taken in Virginia Beach where Colin joined the Neffs.

June 22, 2018

The first of many family beach vacations! This was taken in Virginia Beach where Colin joined the Neffs.
Brittany and Colin's first VT football game as upperclassmen!

September 18, 2018

Brittany and Colin's first VT football game as upperclassmen!
The first trip to the Big Apple, both Brittany and Colin's favorite city.

January 02, 2019

The first trip to the Big Apple, both Brittany and Colin's favorite city.
Bella's Quinceanera! Colin's first one ever and the couple's first time getting dolled up together.

January 19, 2019

Bella's Quinceanera! Colin's first one ever and the couple's first time getting dolled up together.
Brittany and Colin's first Military Ball as upperclassmen.

February 22, 2019

Brittany and Colin's first Military Ball as upperclassmen.
Brittany and Colin spent many weekends hiking on trails along the Blue Ridge Mountains. This was Sharp Top, one of the Peaks of Otter.

October 26, 2019

Brittany and Colin spent many weekends hiking on trails along the Blue Ridge Mountains. This was Sharp Top, one of the Peaks of Otter.
A trip to the couple's second favorite city, Washington D.C.!

January 10, 2020

A trip to the couple's second favorite city, Washington D.C.!
Another family beach trip. This time was in Cape Cod where Brittany joined the De Marias.

July 06, 2020

Another family beach trip. This time was in Cape Cod where Brittany joined the De Marias.
Brittany graduated and commissioned from Virginia Tech! Colin had one more year to go.

May 15, 2021

Brittany graduated and commissioned from Virginia Tech! Colin had one more year to go.
Brittany was attending BOLC at Fort Lee, VA while Colin was finishing his last year at VT. Colin arranged a special dinner and weekend in D.C. for Brittany's birthday.

November 12, 2021

Brittany was attending BOLC at Fort Lee, VA while Colin was finishing his last year at VT. Colin arranged a special dinner and weekend in D.C. for Brittany's birthday.
Off they went! Colin helped Brittany move to Tacoma, Washington during his Spring Break. Here they are enjoying some views along the Puget Sound.

March 09, 2022

Off they went! Colin helped Brittany move to Tacoma, Washington during his Spring Break. Here they are enjoying some views along the Puget Sound.
The couple's first Mariners baseball game! Colin is still a diehard Yankees fan though.

July 22, 2022

The couple's first Mariners baseball game! Colin is still a diehard Yankees fan though.
Colin visited Brittany for his birthday. Here they are enjoying a ferry ride to Bainbridge Island!

July 27, 2022

Colin visited Brittany for his birthday. Here they are enjoying a ferry ride to Bainbridge Island!
Colin commissioned into the Army soon after graduating from VT. Brittany flew to New Jersey to give him the Oath.

September 17, 2022

Colin commissioned into the Army soon after graduating from VT. Brittany flew to New Jersey to give him the Oath.
Colin moved to Tacoma, WA and had to win over the newest member of the family, Roman. Luckily, Colin let Roman pick their first Christmas tree and that sealed the deal. They're best buds now.

November 26, 2022

Colin moved to Tacoma, WA and had to win over the newest member of the family, Roman. Luckily, Colin let Roman pick their first Christmas tree and that sealed the deal. They're best buds now.
Brittany, Colin, and Roman soaking up some sun in Ocean Shores, WA!

June 24, 2023

Brittany, Colin, and Roman soaking up some sun in Ocean Shores, WA!
Colin popped the question on a walk around Point Defiance, WA!

October 07, 2023

Colin popped the question on a walk around Point Defiance, WA!
Brittany, Colin, and Roman added a new member to the family, Athena!

March 12, 2024

Brittany, Colin, and Roman added a new member to the family, Athena!