Wedding Day

Ceremony

Four Seasons Safari Lodge Serengeti

Reception

Our Wedding

Our story began in Durham, where modern romance meets southern charm. We matched on Hinge, met for coffee, and felt an instant spark that set the tone for countless adventures. We strolled through Duke Gardens, shared laughs on the greenway, and listened to true crime podcasts during cozy nights. Together we roamed under sun of San Juan and through the cold winds of Chicago. From woodland hikes to the bright lights of NYC, we embraced every moment. And through it all, our spoiled poodle, Bebe, was by our side, happily indulged with treats and love. Now, we’re ready for the next chapter: an intimate wedding at sunset in the Serengeti, surrounded by the beauty of nature, Maasai dancers, and a sky full of stars. We’ll celebrate our love, marked by laughter, memories, and Bebe’s paw prints, as we begin our forever.

The spirit of love

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

Why are there no guests attending your wedding? Our wedding will be an intimate ceremony held in the heart of the Serengeti, under the sweeping branches of a tree at sunset. This location holds a special, almost magical quality that allows us to focus on the essence of our union—just the two of us, surrounded by the stunning natural beauty of Tanzania. We’ll have a photographer and possibly a videographer to capture these cherished moments, so we can share the memories with all of you who hold a special place in our lives. For more details about the breathtaking setting, you can visit the [Four Seasons Safari Lodge Serengeti](https://www.fourseasons.com/serengeti/). Can we contribute to your special day in any way? Your love and support mean the world to us! If you would like to make a contribution to our special day, please feel free to message me directly. Your generosity will make our celebration even more memorable, and we are deeply grateful. What are your plans after the wedding? Following our ceremony, we will embark on a safari adventure for a few days, soaking in the majestic landscapes and wildlife of the Serengeti. We also plan to visit the vibrant city of Arusha, which will add another layer of adventure to our journey. We will share more details as they unfold, so stay tuned for more updates about this exciting chapter in our lives. Thank you for sharing in our joy and being part of our journey. Your love and support continue to enrich our lives in the most beautiful way.

Wedding Q&A

Q + A

Travel

Things to Do

Registry

Bebe had never been one for events that don’t focus on him. While most of his friends adored the idea of sipping champagne under the setting African sun and listening to vows of love beneath trees adorned with delicate lanterns, Bebe’s mind always drifted elsewhere—specifically, to birds. It was a fine autumn morning when Bebe heard that Caitlin and Deng had decided to have an intimate wedding—just the two of them—in the Serengeti. There wouldn’t be any invitations, no grand guest list, just them, the vows, and the wide, open sky. To most, it sounded romantic; to Bebe, it sounded like an unguarded feast for a feathered battalion. “You know, birds are just tiny dinosaurs,” Bebe muttered to his best friend, Johnny Cash, as he paced his living room. Johnny, who had listened to Bebe’s bird-related anxieties for years, only nodded sagely, a bemused twinkle in his eye. “You’re not wrong,” Johnny agreed, barely hiding a smirk. “But sneaking into someone’s luggage just to be there? Even for you, that’s a bit much.” Bebe’s eyes widened. “Luggage? That’s genius! They’ll never see me coming. And I’d be safe… encased—far from talons and beaks.” Johnny laughed, shaking his head. “You do know they’ll have peacocks and ostriches out there, right? I’m pretty sure even top-of-the-line luggage wouldn’t save you from a curious peck.” Bebe’s shoulders slumped. He knew Johnny was right. The Serengeti wasn’t just a scenic backdrop—it was a haven for winged marauders, and Bebe’s anxiety hummed at the mere thought. The day of the wedding arrived, and Caitlin and Deng exchanged their vows under a sky ablaze with hues of gold and crimson. Meanwhile, back at his apartment, Bebe sat wrapped in a blanket, surrounded by snacks and bird documentaries—the latter serving as a sort of exposure therapy that never quite worked. He kept his phone close, ready for updates. “We miss you!” a text from Caitlin read, accompanied by a photo of her radiant smile and Deng’s joyful expression. Bebe’s heart twinged. He almost wished he’d stowed away—almost. Moments later, Deng’s text arrived: “Good call, buddy. A Flamingo tried to join our first dance. Absolute chaos. Wish you were here—but also, definitely not.” Bebe leaned back on his couch, half-relieved and half-amused. Somewhere outside, a pigeon cooed, and he flinched. Weddings were lovely, he reasoned, but sometimes staying safe at home was even lovelier. In the end, Bebe toasted to Caitlin and Deng’s happiness from a safe distance—bird-free and blissfully unpecked.

It’s a safety issue! 

Shah Rukh Khan

Caitlin & Deng

Caitlin & Deng

Photos

Photos coming soon!